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Leadership
for Saints:
Part 60
Personal
Balance: Mental and Spiritual Dimensions
by Rodger Dean Duncan and Ed J. Pinegar
The mental dimension is about exercising
and challenging the mind in ways that stretch and strengthen
it. Mental dullness is the sign of a person who’s in
a rut. Even people who are constantly busy run the risk
of becoming mentally dull unless they deliberately make
time for good mental gymnastics.
The sharpest people we know are excellent
readers. Their reading diets include a wide range of
materials—good literature, science, biographies, history,
politics, current events, as well as materials related
to their occupation and Church callings. (Again, President
Hinckley is a great model.)
Other ways to open and expand your mind
include:
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Keeping a journal or a daybook. Jot down random ideas that you find
interesting and valuable. Don’t worry about rules
or format. Just write. Leonardo di Vinci kept books
of his ideas. So did Thomas Jefferson, Mahatma Gandhi
and Spencer W. Kimball. Very good company
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Independent study, or formal classes. The world is full of information
to stimulate your mind. Jesse Evans Smith, wife of
Church President Joseph Fielding Smith, took classes
in various subjects every year for more than half
a century. It was her way of keeping mentally sharp.
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Listening to uplifting music. Much has been said about the value
of great music. Try it. It’s a great tonic.
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Limiting your television time. Much of today’s television fare is
intellectual junk food at best. Take the weekly television
guide in your newspaper and use it as you would a
restaurant menu. In a restaurant you wouldn’t order
a table full of fattening desserts. You’d ask for
a balanced diet. Do the same with your television
diet. Decide in advance what you will watch, and balance
your diet with fare that genuinely nourishes your
mind.
- Planning and organizing. Someone said that wars are won in the general’s
tent. Your own planning and organizing—regarding your personal
life as well as your leadership role – can be an excellent mind-expanding
activity.
The Spiritual Dimension
Spiritual renewal is your source of meaning
and purpose. Think how grateful you are for the clarity of the doctrines
of the restored gospel. Consider how much hope and encouragement
you derive from the promises of God. Spiritual activities uplift
and inspire us. They help us discover and rediscover our mission
in life. They reinforce our commitment to do better and to be better.
Our living prophets constantly urge us to
pray often and to study and ponder the scriptures. They warn us
to avoid places and influences that damage or contaminate our spirits.
They plead with us to form daily habits that draw us closer to God
and cause us to yearn for his presence.
Here are some suggestions for maintaining
good spiritual health:
- Pray early and often, every day. Avoid rushing
your prayers. Take time to listen to the promptings of the spirit.
- Study and ponder the scriptures early and often,
every day. Avoid the mistake of thinking that a weekly
dose of scriptures (studying for Sunday School, for example) is
sufficient. Would you consolidate all of your food and vitamins
into a single weekly meal? Of course not. Just as with physical
nourishment, your spiritual nourishment needs to come in several
daily doses.
- Keep a “grateful journal.” Gratitude is the foundation
for a powerful life. Gratitude can change the most habitual cynic
into a full-fledged optimist, a worrywart into a “one day at a
time” person. Gratitude is sort of like a muscle. It is developed
through exercise. Gratitude helps us battle negativity, self-pity
and other destructive feelings. Make a daily list of your blessings,
especially the not-so-obvious ones. Corrie Ten Boom wrote of her
experiences in a Nazi concentration camp during World War II.
She and her sister Betsie, along with many other women, were held
captive in an awful circumstance that included a terrible infestation
of fleas. Corrie and Betsie found themselves thanking God for
the fleas. Only later did they realize that the fleas were what
kept the guards away from the women, enabling Corrie and Betsy
to study the scriptures and teach Christianity to their fellow
prisoners.
- Attend the temple as often as possible. The temple
is sometimes called “the Lord’s university” because it’s there—and
only there—that we can learn and participate in the highest level
curriculum of our religion.
- Notice the miracles. It’s been said that there
are only two ways to live your life. One is to regard nothing
as a miracle. The other is to regard everything as a miracle.
Pause. Look around you. Be honest. Be humble. Be appreciative.
- Study and ponder great literature. Literature is
great when the author skillfully explores timeless themes like
faith, charity, unconditional love, courage and integrity.
- Periodically read and ponder your patriarchal
blessing. Notice how the blessing never changes, but you
change and grow so you’re better able to enjoy and benefit from
the blessing’s promise and perspective.
- Recognize the difference between pleasure and happiness,
then pattern your life so you will seek happiness as opposed to
mere pleasure.
- When adversity strikes, avoid the temptation to
counsel the Lord. Pray for strength to get you through, and for
wisdom to help you understand and grow. President Harold B. Lee
used to say: “Never put a question mark where the Lord has put
a period.”
- Create, review and refine your personal mission
statement. This is your own personal constitution or declaration
of interdependence with God. It should serve as a compass in keeping
you constantly on course and as a gyroscope in keeping you constantly
in balance. (See Chapter 3 for detailed suggestions on mission
statements.)
President David O. McKay taught that “the
greatest battles of life are fought out daily in the silent chambers
of the soul.” It is in that venue—in the heart and the soul—that
we struggle with the choices that either burden us or bless us.
Great leaders do everything possible to maintain the spiritual health
that makes greatness possible.
Quotes Worth Remembering
…
[people] will maintain a better mental balance if they understand
the teachings of the gospel. – Harold B. Lee
To
the extent that we are not willing to be led by the Lord, we will
be driven by our appetites, or we will be greatly preoccupied with
the lesser things of the day. — Neal A. Maxwell
Remember
the draft horse: he can’t pull when he’s kicking; he can’t kick
when he’s pulling. — Wendall Ashton
When
obedience ceases to be an irritant and becomes our quest, in that
moment God will endow us with power. — Ezra Taft Benson
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this groundbreaking book.
Leadership
for Saints
by Rodger Dean Duncan and
Ed J. Pinegar
Contents
Section 1: Understanding the Role of Leadership
Chapter 1
- What Great Leadership Is
Chapter 2 - What Great Leaders Are
Chapter 3 - What Great Leaders See
Chapter 4 - What Great Leaders Do
Section 2: Getting
the Results You and the Lord Want
Chapter 5
- Planning the Work, Working the Plan
Chapter 6 - Councils: Strength in Unity
Chapter 7 - Creating a Climate of Hope and Energy
Section 3: Skills
That Help You Sleep at Night
Chapter 8
- Communication: Building Bridges to Their Hearts
Chapter 9 - Stewardship Delegation: The Great Multiplier
Chapter 10 - The Power of Influence
Chapter 11 - Gatherings of Saints: Think Purpose, Not Meeting
Section 4: Special
Challenges and Opportunities
Chapter 12
- Discernment: The Gift of Great Price
Chapter 13 - Personal Balance: Your "Being" vs. Your
"Doing"
Chapter 14 - Common Questions, Humble Responses
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Rodger Dean
Duncan, a descendant of 19th century Protestant evangelists, was
baptized into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints at
the age of 18. Early in his career he was an award-winning journalist,
editor and syndicated columnist. He has been a consultant to cabinet
officers under two U.S. presidents, members of the U.S. Senate,
and senior officers of major corporations. He earned a Ph.D. at
Purdue University, and is founder and president of The Duncan Company,
a consulting firm focused on leadership development and organizational
effectiveness.
Brother Duncan
has served on several stake high councils, twice as bishop, as stake
president, and as stake mission president. Under President Spencer
W. Kimball he served on the Advisory Council that first recommended
the subtitle to the Book of Mormon, "Another Testament of Jesus
Christ."
Dr. Duncan is
married to Rean Robbins-Duncan. They have four children and three
grandchildren. The Duncans live in Missouri, only a short walk from
Historic Liberty Jail.

Ed
J. Pinegar, a dentist by training and vocation, graduated from Brigham
Young University and attended dental school at the University of
Southern California. While practicing dentistry, he taught seminary
for several years, then taught the Book of Mormon and Gospel Principles
and Practices courses at BYU for 18 years.
Brother
Pinegar's Church assignments include stake high councilor, bishop
(twice), stake president, member of the General Board for Young
Men, and member of the Missionary Programs Advisory Committee. He
also presided over the England London Mission and the Missionary
Training Center in Provo, Utah. He is author of several books for
the LDS market.
Brother
Pinegar is married to Patricia Peterson Pinegar, former General
President of the Primary for the Church. They are parents of eight
children and have 32 grandchildren. The Pinegars live in Orem, Utah.
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