Pass out a piece of paper to
each person. Ask them to write down three fun ideas for
the family to do in the next year. Ask them not to put their
names on the paper. When finished, have them turn in their
ideas.
Pull out a calendar. Explain
that you would like to build a Brigham Young tradition in
the family. Share that the Lord desires happiness for all
of His children. The way to happiness is through purity
and through family recreation. Read through the ideas, without
sharing who wrote them. Explain that you will compile all
the ideas on a master "Family Fun" list.
Invite the family members to
think on Family Fun ideas during the coming week. As they
come up with ideas, encourage them to write them on the
master sheet. Keep the master sheet posted on the fridge
or at some central location.
During the next week's
FHE, select at least one activity per month for the family
to do and add it to the family calendar. Ask your
family for help to make sure the family follows through
with these selected activities. One outing a month (whether
at a park to swing on the swings or to the beach to watch
the sunset) can be just the beginning of great Family Fun.
Who knows — maybe it will be so successful you'll
want more and more fun times together!
Closing Song.
Closing Prayer.
Refreshments. This
week of all weeks really needs refreshments. What better
time to explore the joy that comes from laughing over a
drippy ice cream cone or spelling out names with tiny chocolate
kisses! Thus, even if you don't usually have refreshments
for FHE, make sure this week you do. Clear off those kitchen
tables and sit around, talking and snacking. This family
memory in the minds of your kids will last longer than you
might expect.
Summary
By remembering Brigham Young's
example and the importance of recreation, we create stronger
families that can face nearly anything the world might throw
our way. Obedience to gospel principles is essential. But
let's not forget the tremendous impact of recreation in
a well-functioning family.
We no longer need to droop
under the weight of difficult days. If paying the bills
is a challenge or we're faced with mounting health issues,
increasing time spent with our families through recreational
family fun, we can bring joy to otherwise impossible moments.
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