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Culture Clips - February 27, 2006

Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Marriage


1. True or False: Young women today are more eager to marry than young men. True. According to the Monitoring the Future Survey, 82 percent of high school seniors who are girls said having a good
marriage and family life was "extremely" important to them, compared to 70 percent of high school seniors who are boys. (National Marriage Project, State of Our Unions, 2005)


2. True or False: College students today are more likely to approve of casual, uncommitted sex than college students 20 years ago. False. Between 1980 and 2000, the proportion of students in the UCLA College Freshmen survey who agreed that "if two people really like each other, it's all right for them to have sex even if they have known each other for only a very short time" dropped from 48 percent to 42 percent.


3. True or False: Marriages are much more likely to end in divorce today than they were 20 years ago. False. The overall
divorce rate peaked around 1980 and appears to have declined modestly since then. Divorce rates per 1,000 marriages were 22.6 in 1980, 20.9 in 1990, and 18.8 in 2000(latest data: 2004: 17.7). (National Marriage Project, State of Our Unions, 2005.) According to a recent study, divorce rates among the college-educated have fallen the most dramatically since the 1970s, while rates among less-educated Americans may have risen slightly. Between the early '70s and the early '90s the proportion of women with college diplomas whose marriages dissolved in the first ten years plummeted from 24.3 percent to 16.7 percent. Divorce rates among those with less than a college degree, meanwhile, increased slightly from 33.7 percent to 35.7 percent.


4. True or False: Divorce rates are much higher today than 40 years ago.
Too true. In 2004, the number of divorces per 1000 married women was 17.7; in 1960 it was 9.2. (National Marriage Project, State of Our Unions, 2005)


5. True or False. Cohabitation has skyrocketed to historically unprecedented levels in the
U.S..
True. According to the National Marriage Project, since 1960 the number of unmarried couples in
America increased by nearly 1,200 percent. (National Marriage Project, State of Our Unions, 2005. About 40 percent of births out of wedlock in 2002 were to cohabiting mothers. These children are three times as likely as children born to married couples to see their parents part. (Wendy D. Manning et al, 2004, "The Relative Stability of Cohabiting and Marital Unions for Children," Population Research and Policy Review, 23:135ff.)


6. True or False: The vast majority of today's mothers don't want a full-time career.
True. In a 2005 nationally-representative survey of 2000 mothers,
just 16 percent prefer a full-time job.

Maggie Gallagher

National Review

http://www.nationalreview.com/comment/gallagher200602230759.asp


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Standing Out

Marriage in the Netherlands is in serious trouble. You don't have to take my word for it, because even the Netherlands' own statistical agency is making the same point. In this 2004 report "Trends in samenwonon en trouwen" ("Trends in cohabitation and marriage"), Jan Latten of the Dutch Central Bureau of Statistics paints a picture of radical institutional decline. And the most recent data from the Netherlands is fully consistent with this picture. At a minimum, this means that the "conservative case" for same-sex marriage has been refuted in the Dutch case. More than that, I argue, all signs point to same-sex marriage as a significant causal factor in Dutch marital decline...


Until 1997, when the
Netherlands legalized Registered Partnerships, the Dutch out-of-wedlock birthrate was notably low... Here is Latten's summary of the state of marriage in the Netherlands: "More cohabiting, more children born to unmarried couples, more family breakups among unmarried couples... The development of relationships and families is seen as a strictly private affair, while restrictions imposed from the outside - in the form of marriage, parenthood or divorce - could only serve to limit the freedom of individuals within these settings." "The citizen," says Latten, "has retreated from the public square." He continues, "More and more children are born out of wedlock. Here too we find a shift away from formal frameworks... people view not just relationships but even parenthood as an exclusively personal affair."


We already know that the Dutch out-of-wedlock birthrate began increasing more quickly in the mid-1990s. Latten's more extensive data confirm this: "the number of informal two-parent families as a share of the total number of couples has almost tripled between 1995 and 2003. The number of formal two-parent families (married couples with children) on the other hand, has decreased."


Stanley
Kurtz

National Review


http://www.nationalreview.com/kurtz/kurtz200602230800.asp


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Why Summers Fell


Harvard's 27th president announced his resignation last week, but Lawrence Summers's fall from grace actually began on
Oct. 26, 2001, less than four months after his presidency began. That was the date on which he addressed the annual public service awards banquet at Harvard's Kennedy School of Government, and had the temerity to speak favorably of American patriotism - and, even more audaciously, to express admiration for the men and women who serve in the US armed forces.

Patriotism is a word ''used too infrequently" on campuses like Harvard's, Summers said, and too many academics regard those who wear the uniform with ''disaffection." He stressed ''the importance of clearly expressing our respect and support for the military," and pointedly voiced the ''hope that when you have this award next year, among those who will be recognized will be those who have served our country in uniform... [W]e need to remember that of all the kinds of public service, there is a special nobility, a special grace, to those who are prepared to sacrifice their lives for our country."

Summers followed up that message in a Veterans Day letter to Harvard cadets and midshipmen, writing that he ''and many others deeply admire those of you who choose to serve society in this way." And in remarks to the Faculty of Arts and Sciences, he described military service as ''vitally important to the freedom that makes possible institutions like Harvard."

In most of
America, such views are commonplace. But at Harvard - where ROTC has been banned for more than 30 years - more than a few faculty members were bound to find them appalling. Just how much they rankled is suggested by the fact that on the day Summers resigned, one of his most virulent opponents - anthropology professor J. Lorand Matory - told an interviewer that among the things that made the university president so unbearable was his ''telling us we should be more patriotic."


Jeff Jacoby

Townhall


http://www.townhall.com/opinion/columns/jeffjacoby/2006/02/27/187913.html


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Feminist Victory


A Defeat for Academic Freedom

Lawrence H. Summers is stepping down as president of Harvard University. His critics cite a number of missteps - from challenging the eminent African-American professor Cornell West to expressing support for the U.S. military - that contributed to his demise. But those were minor scrapes; he's leaving because he never recovered from a wound inflicted by the Harvard gender police.


At an academic conference last January, Summers made the mistake of speculating that innate differences between men and women may in part explain why more men than women reach the upper echelons of science and math. Radical feminists were aghast and called for his removal. More than a year later, they finally got their man.


It's testament to the bizarre world of academia. Leftist feminists are increasingly misfits in American politics (each election feminist groups promise that women are going to vote in mass for a liberal revolution - it has yet to happen), but they are big men on campus. In academia's ivory tower, they can instill their world view on impressionable youngsters and make or break aspiring academics.


In this bubble, a self-proclaimed feminist like MIT biology professor Nancy Hopkins can with a straight face describe nearly fainting after hearing Summers suggest there are gender differences: "I felt I was going to be sick. My heart was pounding and my breath shallow. I was extremely upset." Her over-reaction is itself evidence of gender differences (can anyone imagining a male professor reacting like that?), but it would be taboo to say so on a politically correct campus.


Conservatives have spent years trying to raise awareness that true academic inquiry has been sacrificed to political correctness. Summers ousting may mark an important turning point in this effort. After all, Summers was the Treasury Secretary under President Bill Clinton - hardly a right-wing ideologue. His failure to pass the campus liberal litmus test may convince many that the problem is real.


Carrie Lukas

Townhall

http://www.townhall.com/opinion/columns/CarrieLukas/2006/02/24/187776.html

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