| Empty Nest Mothers
Once your fledglings have left the nest, here are some suggestions for dealing with feelings of loneliness and separation.
By Daryl Hoole
Evaluating
Your Emphasis
Children are extremely perceptive in picking
up the emphasis, or priority, of our homes and lifestyles, however
subtle it may be. Think for a moment and be honest with yourself
— how do you stress such things as education, music, sports,
vacations, fun times, traditions, clean houses, good food, and
material possessions?
By Daryl Hoole
Make This a Record Year
Chatting in the cloakroom of our ward building one Sunday, a friend said to me, “I stayed home from Sunday School last week and wrote my life story.” I was flabbergasted! How could someone do it so quickly? She must know more than I do!
By Daryl Hoole
The
Empty Box
With all the thoughtfulness you expressed
in selecting gifts for family and friends during the past Christmas
season, did you take any thought about a gift for yourself?
Seldom, if ever, do we give gifts to ourselves, but here is
a gift that won't cost a penny — and that could give you
a great deal of peace of mind.
By
Daryl Hoole
Self-Reliance
or Self-Sufficiency — Which Do I Want for My Children?
Should parents raise children
who are self-sufficient or self-reliant? There is a big
difference between the two, and today's question and answer
column shows that one is far preferable to the other.
By Daryl Hoole
Peace
[On My Spot] on Earth
As mothers, we are the heart of
the home, and as such it is within our realm of influence to
foster peace in some very specific, practical ways in our homes.
This we can do, in spite of challenges and problems, by helping
things go right.
By Daryl Hoole
It’s
Christmas All Month Long
Christmas is not just a day; it's a season.
Here is a day-by-day countdown, with meaningful things you can
do with your family to make the whole month shine.
By Daryl Hoole
How
Much Do You Care?
Are you reliable, courteous, and
grateful? If you had been one of the ten lepers that Jesus
healed, would you have been the one who thanked Him? This
easy quiz will give you an answer.
By Daryl Hoole
Can't Do It All
Some mothers bewail the fact that they can't do it all. Other mothers are afraid they can't do any of it. Here are some excellent survival tips for these beleaguered mothers.
By Daryl Hoole
How to Be an Elastic Woman
When the choice is bending or breaking, the time has come to learn flexibility. Some things don't allow for any amount of compromise, but most of life allows us to change our plans to accommodate the ebb and flow of life.
By Daryl Hoole
Respecting the Family Cook
If children insist on eating junk food even though their mother makes all their food from scratch, how strict should be the parent be about upholding family rules?
By Daryl Hoole
A Time of Renewal
The casualness of summer has given way to some structure and a welcomed routine. The children are back in school. Projects that have been put off all summer are now getting attention. September is a time of renewal. Is there something in your life that needs a new perspective?
By Daryl Hoole
Smart Shopping With Coupons
It's not enough to organize your coupons. You can't save money with them unless you remember to take them to the store.
By Daryl Hoole
Finding Balance in Homemaking
The purpose of a home is to provide a setting that is conducive to the happiness and well-being of the family. Having a clean and orderly house can help facilitate this, but that should not become the goal in itself. The principle to be considered here is balance.
By Daryl Hoole
Projects
for Children
Summer Solutions to Children’s Boredom and Messy
Rooms
If you need summer solutions to
children's boredom and messy rooms, look no farther. The solutions
are here.
By Daryl Hoole
No
Flitting
We've found the enemy! The "enemy" to successful home
management, that is. In fact, there are at least four such enemies
— situations and/or patterns that interfere with the smooth
operation of a household.
by Daryl Hoole
How to Choose and Care for Toys
Buying children's toys is not as simple as picking out the first item you see in a toy store. There are tricks to buying toys that children will use, and keeping them in a condition that assures they will be used for months and even years to come.
by Daryl Hoole
Teenagers
and Household Tasks—Motivating Teens to Help at Home
Here
are some key points that may be useful to parents in establishing
a strong, positive, and mutually beneficial relationship with
their teenagers with regard to household responsibilities. No
kidding!
by Daryl Hoole
Age-Appropriate
Chores for Children
Here is
a list of age-appropriate chores for children, so your expectations
can be realistic and the child will not feel overwhelmed, frustrated,
or discouraged.
By Daryl Hoole
Twenty Tips for Teaching Children to Work
Learning to do less for your children so you can do more with them is a good maxim to live by in the home. Here are a few basic principles about teaching children the work ethic and then twenty tips for practical application.
By Daryl Hoole
Worn Out, or Just Broken In?
A worried
mother wants to know if the fashion for wearing worn-out clothing
is harmless, or if there is a darker side to the trend.
By Daryl Hoole
Winning the Paper War
In fighting the paper war, remember the old adage, "Less is more" — more order, more space, more efficiency, more time, more peace of mind.
By Daryl Hoole
How to Prepare a Missionary
It was evident that what young people needed at home, prior to embarking on missions or leaving for college, was not just being taught to do a task, but being taught to do the task every time it needed doing. They needed to form the habit of doing the job.
By Daryl Hoole
It’s
Spring Tune-up Time
Many people do spring cleanings
to get the house in tip-top condition. But a spring tune-up
may be equally important as far as renewing your mind about
the business of housework.
By Daryl Hoole
Daryl
Hoole Answers Your Homemaking Questions
How
do you influence someone who apparently sees no need in keeping
an orderly home, and whose families may even be in danger because
of their physical surroundings?
By Daryl Hoole
It's Like Walking Through Molasses
One wife and mother realizes that life does not stand still when Mom gets sick. Somehow the pieces must be picked up so the family can go on.
By Daryl Hoole with Elaine Hoole Quinn
Answers
to Homemaking Questions
If there
is anything you want to know about the fine art of homemaking,
Mormondom's own Heloise —
Daryl Hoole —
has
the answers you seek.
By Daryl Hoole
A
New Year’s Resolution for Mothers: Be of Good Cheer
If Mother
is not happy, everyone in the family feels the negative effects.
Husbands and children struggle. The entire family is disheartened
and a feeling of discouragement prevails in the home. The tool
the adversary uses to destroy or at least derail the righteous
is discouragement.
By Daryl Hoole
A
Christmas Gift for Mothers Beyond Measure
Even though a righteous father and patriarch
in the home may declare, "As for me and my house, we will
honor the Sabbath," it is generally the mother who manages
the home in such a way that this can actually happen.
By Daryl Hoole
Traditions
that Bind and Bless Families
Traditional events or activities may seem
fairly insignificant standing alone, but put together and enjoyed
time after time, they spell solidarity in family life. Blessed
is the home that is rich in them.
By Daryl Hoole
Do
Today’s Work Today
Whether the problem
is procrastination, prioritization, organization, delegation,
or whatever, most home managements tasks can get accomplished
when you plan your work and then work your plan. A big step
in making this happen is to do today's work today.
By Daryl Hoole
Power
Phrases — Powerful Principles
Many families
have their own personal repertoire of short sermons that teach
a lesson in a dozen words or less. At our house I like to think
of these one-liners as power phrases that stand for powerful
principles. Here are some that have worked for us.
By Daryl Hoole
Make Way for Back to School
You have
heard over and over that it is important to organize ourselves.
Here are some ideas that will help even the stubbornest procrastinators
do it in a way that they may find themselves having fun in the
process.
By Daryl Hoole
The
Priority Principle: Doing First Things First
A subtle
but strong message is sent to our husbands and children when
we keep house for the family and company is welcome anytime.
In this way, our family feels like company and our friends feel
like family.
By Daryl Hoole
How to
Build a Better Kid: Summer Self-improvement Program for Children
It can be the best or the worst of times - just ask any mother whose children are on an extended break from school. Here are some suggestions for helping your children have a fabulous summer vacation.
The Top Job
My first stop was a fourth grade class. I held up my book and began to talk, only to realize I didn’t know what to say. How does one explain The Ultimate Career to ten-year-olds?
Order: a Heaven-made Law
We have found enemy number one to successful home management: it’s too much stuff! All this stuff makes clutter, and clutter detracts from the appearance of the home and interferes with its function. We owe ourselves and our families something better.
“To Be Happy at Home” - An Interview with Daryl Hoole
In the 1960s, young mother Daryl Hoole was asked to teach a class for new brides on "Efficiency and the Simplification of Household Tasks." She went to her class, but there were no brides in attendance. It looked like the class was a complete failure. But her room was full of women—the brides’ older sisters and mothers had picked up on the advertising and they were there, eager to learn. What would happen next would start something beyond amazing. Today Daryl Hoole begins as a columnist on Meridian.
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