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The Duffle Bag
Sometimes good things happen to people who don’t conform.
By Larry Day

Pray and Stay Awake!
Sometimes in the scriptures, there are stories that parallel each other that command our attention and teach principles.  Such is the case of the two accounts in scripture where Jesus was with his apostles and commanded them to watch and pray always lest they entered into temptation.
By Janet Lisonbee

We are All Warriors
We are all warriors. Have you ever wondered why Mormon kept all the war chapters in the Book of Mormon? My son taught me the answer as he served in Georgia on his mission. He said, "We are in a war here — a war with Satan. I am learning a lot from the way Captain Moroni fought. Everything is an allegory. There is a lot of instruction there on how to fight this war."
By G.G. Vandagriff

Coming Home to Love
The minute I begin feeling unloving or critical toward someone who is unloving or critical, I am no longer on the Lord's turf. I am uncomfortable because I've lost the spirit of love. Since God is love, I've lost His Spirit, and am left on my own until I turn back to Him.
By Darla Isackson

Family Helps: CDs, Games and FHE Ideas
Entertaining as well as educational products aim to help LDS families fulfill goals. They run the gamut from recorded talks to games to books filled with ideas for Family Home Evening.

By
Laurie Williams Sowby

The Spiritual Anatomy of Anger
Anger is part of being human. Denying the emotion causes more problems than admitting it. Fortunately, there are healthy ways to deal with anger and to get the understanding from your head into your heart.

By Darla Isackson

Secretive Mormonism?
If people who are not members of the Church complain to you about the "secretive" nature of Mormonism, here is a resonse from a noted LDS scholar.

By John A. Tvedtnes

Tales from the Backwater of the Church
It has been called an island of individuality in a sea of status quo. But whatever you call it, this community of Latter-day Saints knows how to have a rip-roaring good time.
By Greg Hansen

Make an Un-Smart New Year's Resolution
We have probably all heard about the importance of making plans to ensure a better likelihood of actually accomplishing the goals we set for ourselves, but is there ever a time when sticking to your goals isn't so smart?
By Jonathan H. Westover

Glimpses of the Church in England

The wife of a newly called mission president of the England London South Mission experiences a melting pot of nationalities in Latter-day Saint congregations.
By Heidi S. Swinton

The Ultimate iPod
Here is The Definitive Explanation of why you should consider getting an iPod, or other mp3 player. The best part is, John the Revelator and other prophets may have foreseen something just as personal as this.
By Greg Hansen 

One Mom’s New Year’s Eve Dreams
A starry-eyed teenager's belief that how we end the old year tells much about how we will spend the new is recalled by an older and wiser mother.
By Debra Sansing Woods

Presence, Not Presents
In December and throughout the year, we need to remind ourselves that our presence is much more valuable than any other gift we can give.  Likewise, the presence of the Lord in our lives is the greatest gift we can receive.
By Darla Isackson

How To Make Cold Mornings Memorable for Your School Kids
Here are some simple tips that offer a fun, inexpensive way to make those winter mornings something the kids will remember and look forward to.
By Greg Hansen

A Tiny Christmas Miracle
All the memories of her lost baby were contained in a slender scrapbook.  Now the scrapbook was missing.  Would the memories be lost too?
By Janice Kapp Perry

Fasting and Spiritual Feasting
Both fasting and prayer are not to change God’s mind, but to change our hearts. They are not to change God's will, but to put our will in harmony with it.
By Darla Isackson

The Blessing of Patriarchal Blessings
Most human beings are on a quest to understand who they really are. Since we can't remember, we yearn for clues. Patriarchal blessings give us some of the most important and trustworthy insights to personal reality that we will ever receive.
By Darla Isackson

Ye Shall Always Rejoice
What particular experiences have you had in your life that have forged your testimony, that have shown you that God is there? Do you always retain them in remembrance? Have you written them down? Have you shared them with your family and with others whose testimony may be flagging?
By G.G. Vandagriff

Choosing Agency — Again!
A well-meaning stake missionary watches the trials a family goes through and reminds herself that agency rules — even in instances where people making the choices aren't as smart as we are.
by Darla Isackson

Financial Freedom and the Blessings of a Debt-Free Life
Experiencing the blessings of a debt-free life all starts with learning to put the Lord first and paying an honest tithing and a generous fast offering.  Being obedient to the Lord's law of finance helps to put us into the correct frame of mind — recognizing that all we have comes from the Lord.
By Jonathan H. Westover

Counting the Blessings Freedom Brings
If you are looking for new traditions to celebrate the Fourth of July holiday, try counting the blessings of freedom. You may be surprised with the freedoms that are important to you.

By Debra Sansing Woods

The Highway of the Lord
Highways play an important role in the gospel. It is important that we be on the right path, that the path be in a good condition, and that the path be well lit in order for us to reach our final destination.
By Janet Lisonbee

There Are No Small Things
One small act of kindness activated a family and has even affected generations beyond the veil. Through this gesture of love, the author learned that there are no small acts of kindness.
By G.G. Vandagriff

Loving Life's Second Half
It's been proved by a reputable research team that those who have the most birthdays live the longest! The second half can be the best.
by Darla Isackson

Friends Help a Family with Home Decorating
A Low-End Budget Yields a High-End Look

It started as one girl's idea: learn interior design and make it a project to help others.
By Dana King

Announcing Meridian Japanese
We started Meridian with a vision, that this magazine could be a gathering place for Saints from around the world and today we mark the beginning of Meridian Magazine in Japanese!
By Maurine Proctor

Margaret Barker's Understanding of Jesus Christ
Depictions of Christ as anything from a magician to a cynic teacher are dismissed by Margaret Barker, whose Jesus of Nazareth knew who he was and what he was doing. Her Jesus of history was the Christ of faith.
By Kevin Christensen

Celebrating the Continuation of Life
If Mother's Day brought pain to you, there is another way to look at the annual commemoration. Next year, think of Mother's Day as a celebration of life.
By Darla Isackson

Latter-day Saints and Infertility:
A Unique Challenge and a Unique Blessing

Living in a family-oriented culture can present a unique challenge to those who have unfulfilled expectations with regard to children, but not so challenging that we should miss out on promised blessings.
By Krista Ralston Oakes 

A More Excellent Hope: Developing a Vision of Wholeness in the Process of Recovery from Pornography and Sexual Addiction
In a world where homosexuality, pornography, and alternative lifestyles are vehemently protected we've come to the point where the prophets of old have warned. That is, we now call evil good and good evil, we now put darkness for light and light for darkness (Isaiah 5:20). Yet there is hope.
By Joseph White

Verily, Verily, I Say unto You
When Jesus said "verily," He did it for a reason. We should pay special attention to the "verily, verily" phrases and even the singular "verily" should alert us to something that Jesus especially wants us to know.
By Janet Lisonbee

Rings and Repentance
It was just one ancient diamond ring in a whole collection of jewelry. Nobody would ever notice it was gone.
By Kathryn Lynard Soper

“Lord, How Is It Done?”
There is no limit to God's power in our lives except as we limit Him by our doubt and unbelief. Only as we believe and trust Him can he bless us as He desires. What an awesome risk He took to give us agency, knowing we could use it to shut Him out of our lives. He stands at the door and knocks, but when we choose not to believe we leave Him standing out in the cold.
By Darla Isackson

Beautifully Modest Announces Scholarships
Beautifully Modest, America's largest provider of modest-only bridal and formal wear, announced today it is offering five scholarships to students who best exemplify modesty in an article or essay.

Overcoming Opposition
The hymn "Where Can I Turn for Peace" has a story for all of us. But the biggest story may be the one behind the hymn
the reason the hymn was written in the first place.
By D. Bryce Baker

The Lord's Yoke
What an amazing concept that I am invited to have Him right beside me — He who never tires, never needs sleep, always knows what is best to do. But the yoke concept works only if I'm willing to go the Lord's way, move in the same direction He is headed, have the same desires, plow the same field.
By Darla Isackson

The Missing Scriptures
There were other sets of scriptures around the house. Why was it that the loss of this one set of scriptures made the whole world seem out of whack?
By Steve Orton

Root Causes of the Need to Be Right
"What difference does it make?" is a good conflict-defusing question to ask ourselves any time we disagree. The only difference any conflict about mundane things makes is what we make of it.
By Darla Isackson

What's Wrong with Being Right?
Being "right" about something is an empty victory indeed if a relationship is strained because of it.
It take a generosity of spirit to allow others their own perceptions and responses, to have the patience to let others be on their own journey, learn at their own speed — the very same generosity of experience exemplified by the Savior.
By Darla Isackson

Rest and Recreation that Rejuvenate
When you're tired, how do you relax? Do you take a warm bath, or turn on the television to unwind? There may be a better way.
By Peggy Barrus

The Testament of “Amazing Grace”
The beloved hymn "Amazing Grace," recently featured in a feature film by the same name, is no mere pop cultural icon. It is a testament to the potentially transformative power of religious conversion.
By Daniel C. Peterson

Kneeling in the Snow
A few of the Scouts took the wrong fork in the road and ended up miles from their equipment. How would they make it back to the rest of their group before nightfall?
By Jonathan H. Westover

Making a Mission Happen, Part 5
Couples who serving as senior missionaries around the world share their joys and their frustrations, hoping that you will join them in their labors.
By Laurie Williams Sowby

Latter-day Miracle Among the Zuni
More than 406 priesthood blessings given in one day by one missionary stopped a smallpox epidemic in its tracks. In our church, miracles continue to happen.
By Steve Orton


Letting Go of Self-Deception
Do we remember our actions the way they really happened or as we wish they had happened? And we if only remember the wishes, what is the harm in that?
By Paul Bishop

Choosing Life in Spite of Loss
All of us suffer losses. Sometimes those losses are great ones. It's how we react to the losses that determines who we are, and whether we will be happy.
By Darla Isackson

Plain and Precious Things Restored:  Jesus and the Temple Tradition
When studying the New Testament, the text without the context cannot tell us everything we need to know. We have to prepare our minds to bring the most bountiful harvest from the text.
By Kevin Christensen

Valentine's Day is for Everyone
I realize now that she gave me two gifts that year the baked goodies themselves, but also the sense, as I tried to figure out who had delivered my secret valentine, that I was loved by many.
By Debra Sansing Woods

The Subtle Curse of Too Many Choices
When there are a thousand options you can choose or not-choose, how can you ever decide which cell phone (or which car, or which brand of spaghetti sauce) is the perfect one for you?
By Darla Isackson

Some Things Are Worth Saving
In your quest to de-clutter your life, don't throw out the treasures with the trash.  There's a way to tell the difference.
By Darla Isackson

A Different Way to Read the Scriptures
He was proud of his scripture-marking program until he realized that the markings caused him to see the same things every time he read the scriptures.
By Jonathan H. Westover

Becoming Temples of the Lord
We who follow Jesus Christ are all carpenters. We are building temples where the Lord's spirit can come to reside.
By Janet Lisonbee

With Surety Hoping for a Better World
In a Romanian orphanage, a BYU student learned, "When I was overwhelmed with the pain around me, I was lovingly reminded that I did not need to take it on myself, because Someone else already had."

By G.G. Vandagriff and Shannon Wilson

The Lord is My Shepherd, I Shall Not Want (What I Can't Have)
If the Lord is my Shepherd I won't want what I can't have and what He is not willing to give me. What are some of the "can'ts" I sometimes have wanted?
By Darla Isackson

One Mom’s Mostly Complete Thoughts on Family Life
Are you so distracted by your children's constant chatter that you forget to add baking soda to the cake? One mother has found some lifesaving coping mechanisms.
By Debra Sansing Woods

John Adams: “A Man Worth Knowing”
America's second president set examples of morality and service that are still relevant today. His life is worth remembering more than 175 years after his death.
David McCullough

Who Wrote the Gospels?
The word "gospels" means "good news," and as we delve into the good news of this year's New Testament studies it is important to know who reported the good news that we will be reading.
by John A. Tvedtnes

The Triumphal Entry:  A Type of Christ’s Second Coming
It is appropriate at this season celebrating Christ's birth to think of His ministry, and the event that foreshadows His second coming.
By Janet Lisonbee

Word of Wisdom Helps Santa Lose Weight
A department-store St. Nicholas had no idea he could be too fat to be Santa, but his new lifestyle as a member of the LDS Church proved a blessing in more ways than one.
By John Degel

Such As I Have, I Give
Most of us don't have much "silver and gold" to give at Christmastime. But gifts that cost money are often insignificant compared to our gifts of self our gifts of love.
By Darla Isackson, with Peggy Barrus

Crèches and Carols — A St. Louis Community Christmas Tradition
In the United States and Canada at least 50 major nativity exhibits take place every Christmas season. Drawing thousands of visitors each, an estimated 75 percent are hosted by wards or stakes of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
By Dana L. King, Meridian Correspondent

Making a Mission Happen, Part 4
With some of their assignments not working out as planned, couple missionaries sometimes have to improvise
By Laurie Williams Sowby

Church Here, There, and Everywhere: Being LDS in China
Although the accents may be different, one young woman learns that the truth of our gospel doctrine is the same no matter where we are, no matter how small or big our membership is.
By Belinda Wong, BYU Meridian Correspondent

Making a Mission Happen, Part 3
Proselyting senior missionaries may suffer culture shock when they serve in faraway countries, but the rewards are worth the sacrifices.
By Laurie Williams Sowby

Drew Boushka Explores Love through Music
It is hard to imagine that someone so inexperienced in life can adequately express such an array of emotions. The pervasive culture of immorality in our nation needs voices like Drew's to reclaim the idea that "love can last forever and not end."
By Bethany Tredway

Slow Down and Appreciate Christmas
How ironic that we spend so many of our December hours following traditions that lead us to celebrate the birthday of the Prince of Peace in such unpeaceful ways! How can we spend more Christmastime hours focusing on being more like Him?
By Darla Isackson

When Seeing is Feeling: The Art of Walter Rane
How could even a talented artist depict the faces of children who were meeting the Christ?
By David Pliler

Grateful for the Love of Heavenly Family
The eternal family is not a mommy and a daddy and a few little children who live together forever, but a multitude of loving, connected, caring, redeemed souls. We can know for sure that regardless of our family situation here, as long as we choose the Lord, choose His church, and choose to live by the Spirit, we have an eternal family.
By Darla Isackson

12 Dogs Combines Kids, Snow, Christmas, and Fun
When Mormon filmmaker Kieth Merrill happened upon two of his grandchildren reading the book The 12 Dogs Of Christmas, he could not have imagined that just three months later he'd be shooting a full-length, live-action, feature film based on the book.
By Ken Kragen

Magnifying Your Talents
Ripples of Adult Conversion, Part IV
God gives us our talents for a reason. It is our responsibility to find out what He wants us to do with our talents, and to use them accordingly.
By Paul Bishop

Not Even the National Guard Could Deter Them
In their quest to create beautiful temple dresses, two determined Mormon women learned that there are more than 275 shades of white.

By Cheryl Peterson

"Pure Sacrifice" — Poignant Stories of Saints at War
We are losing our World War II veterans at a rate of 1,100 a day. If you have the opportunity to shake the hand of World War II veteran and thank him for his service, do it quickly, because that opportunity is quickly passing.
By Ken Cromar

Leadership
Ripples of Adult Conversion, Part III
Although the Lord calls some to the mission field, he calls others to be accountants, business executives, engineers, clerks, and janitors. We are all on missions some in exotic far-flung places, and yet far many more in the jungles of the common workplace.
By Paul Bishop

Christ in the Workplace
Ripples of Adult Conversion, Part II
Everyone's workplace is different. However, finding opportunities to apply the lessons of the gospel in our professional lives is as important as living up to our covenants in our personal lives you can't do one without the other.
By Paul Bishop

Taking the Gospel of Jesus Christ Personally
What a comforting, wondrous thing to realize that each time we feel the Spirit we are receiving a personal love letter from the Lord.
By Darla Isackson

Of Fringes, Buckskin and Duct Tape
The fringe worn by the cowboys of the American Old West has a modern-day equivalent, and it isn't rickrack.
By Greg Hansen

Ripples of Adult Conversion, Part I — New Gifts and Blessings
After baptism, our personal evolution should be a constant ongoing process. It is something at which we must persistently work. This type of emotional and spiritual progress is not easy, but we need to remember that just because we have joined the orchestra does not mean we can immediately play all the instruments.
By Paul Bishop

After Divorce: A Life Still Sublime
Divorce was unexpected, and the trauma was almost overwhelming. It took a long time to understand that life was still sublime.
By Kathryn Jenkins

Powering Our Lives with General Conference Year-Round
Partaking of general conference need not be limited to a weekend feast with a few small follow-up snacks. Rather, the inspired talks given at conference can be partaken of as a spiritual feast that can actively power and light our lives year-round.
By Debra Sansing Woods

Gifts of Tears and Scriptures
In times of sorrow, the ability to feel, and even to grieve, is a gift.

By Darla Isackson

My Son Came Home Early from His Mission
(Becoming a Tender Mercy of the Lord)

A son comes home early from his mission. How should his father treat him? And what should the neighbors think?
Author’s Name Withheld by Request

Writing First What We Want to Last
Money could never buy such a sacred possession as the recorded influence of the Lord in your life. Nothing else you could give your grandchildren could be half so important as your testimony written as only you can write it.
By Darla Isackson

Many Right Ways to Write Your History
Your descendants can never read your life story if you haven't written it. Your family's story is not likely to make it to the silver screen, but you can give your children a sense of their family roots through a written history of your life and the lives of your ancestors.
By Darla Isackson

Take the Five-Point Marriage Inspection Quiz
Is your marriage sound, or do you need help? Take this marriage inspection quiz today. You don't need to make an appointment to see a marriage mechanic. You can do it at your own convenience, and it's free of charge.
By Ken Robertson, Ph.D.

Organizing the Elements of a Picture History
Here are some practical solutions to the dilemma of organizing a picture history of yourself or your ancestors. Best of all, you can do it in bite-sized chunks instead of having to tackle the project one elephant at a time.
By Darla Isackson

The Trees of the Garden
It was a fruit tree that plunged mankind into mortality, and it is a fruit tree that secures us eternal life. In fact, we are admonished by Alma to grow a Tree of Life within ourselves. This article uses the scriptures to explore the trees that are such a big part of our eternal salvation.
By Janet Lisonbee

Self-Education for Adults: Inspiration for the Ongoing Care and Feeding of the Mind
A little bit of learning tucked in to each day can add up to a lot of learning over time. In fact, a mere ten minutes of focused learning a day on a particular subject can help us to become experts in that subject.
By Debra Sansing Woods

Sustained Love Is a Result of Sustained Respect
Love felt in the beginning of a relationship swells and blooms as respect and trust grow. Each individual in the relationship must do his or her part for fragile love to endure. If something he or she thinks, sees, hears, or does diminishes that growth, love wilts.
By Fay A. Klingler

Ponder Your Matter Unorganized
(What to do with All Those Family History Papers and Pictures)
It's hard to do your genealogy if everything is in stacks of pictures and papers. Here are some ideas for helping you turn mess into masterpiece.
By Darla Isackson

"Please Bless Us to Have Fun"
Obedience and fun often appear to be at odds. Even though we believe that God is good, we may not believe that He is fun.
By Brian Perrin

Seeking Recreation That Renews the Spirit
Joseph Smith laughed and played and condoned many forms of recreation among the Saints. He said a bow that is always strung tight loses its spring. He was right!
By Darla Isackson

Goal-Setting Focuses Your Efforts In Recovery
When I feel overwhelmed with my challenges and want to give up, or believe that I can't keep up the pace anymore, I need to slow down not quit. It doesn't all have to be done today.
By Fay A. Klingler

Stumbling Blocks to Creativity
No matter what your gifts and abilities, if you don't build upon the proper cornerstones, you will find stumbling blocks in their place.
By Joseph Brickey

The Human Heritage of Creativity
Although we may not ever have imagined it, each of us is a genius of creativity. Creativity is our heritage a birthright from the greatest Creator of all.
By Joseph Brickey

"All is Well"
We face natural disasters, whirlwinds of evil, wars and rumors of wars and trials of the spirit and soul of every sort. Can we still sing with the faith of our fathers, "All is well. All is well"?
By Darla Isackson

Putting our Trust in the Lord
Our lives may have a pattern of trials. But if we put our trust in the Lord, we will be comforted in the knowledge that these trials are for our ultimate good.
By Wendy Rojas
Introduction by Darla Isackson

Being Thankful for Manna
God is not always flashy when he gives us the things we need. More often than performing spectacular "walk on water" miracles, he does something so subtle that we may not catch it. We have to be listening for the still, small voice or we'll miss it.
By Kathryn H. Kidd

Faith of Our Fathers - Creating One Nation Under God
Despite the assertions of modern "historians," there is no question that the language used by so many of the Founding Fathers in their writings, speeches and recorded conversations, was indicative of a Judeo-Christian belief system. Words such as Supreme Being; Great Lord; Providence; the Creator; and Ruler of Nations, were commonplace.
By Dawn Frandsen

Finding Peace When a Loved One Dies
The death of a loved one is devastating regardless of the age, the economic situation of the family, the number of siblings, or even the depth and understanding of the Gospel. Here are some suggestions to help you conquer the feelings of devastation.
By the Mental Health Resource Foundation

Life Is Not a Spectator Sport
Today's children are following the example of many adults to become watchers instead of doers, observers instead of active participants. Preschoolers spend roughly one-third of their waking time watching television. As we saunter into summer, here are some things to be aware of.
By Darla Isackson

Giving Service Contributes to a Healthy Recovery
The scriptures say that when Joseph, son of Jacob, was sold into slavery, he continued in faith and lived the commandments. Joseph did his best to turn his bad experiences into good ones. One of the things he did was to serve others.
By Fay A. Klingler

Shabbat Hamalka — The Sabbath Queen
Orthodox Jews call the Sabbath day, “Shabbat Hamalka,” which means Queen or Bride of the Sabbath.  The Sabbath day is the most important ritual observance in Judaism, and the only ritual observance instituted in the Ten Commandments.
By Janet Lisonbee

Faith in the Fatherhood of God
The more we learn of Heavenly Father and experience His infinite love, the easier it is to trust Him, obey Him, submit our lives and will to Him.
By Darla Isackson

Involuntary Childlessness: One Man's Perspective
Inheritance can be an agonizing problem for the aging. To whom do we pass our treasured possessions when we die? And who cares whether I kept a journal or not?
By Alan R. Thompson

Fatherhood
Becoming a parent is relatively easy. Being a father, however, is infinitely more difficult. Here are some thoughts on fatherhood from a police officer who has seen first hand what the lack of a strong father figure can do to a child.
By Paul Bishop

Monsters of the Deep: Mesoamerican Symbols from Jaredite Origins
Did the Jaredite memory of encountering monsters of the deep that rammed their barges become a symbol to signify crossing the sea on early Mesoamerican monuments?
By V. Garth Norman

Youth of the Noble Birthright
It means so much to hear you say that there are many in my generation that are chosen. It reminds me that no matter how hard things become in life, my Heavenly Father will never leave me alone.
By Darla Isackson with Rosa Sedillo

Three Important Action Steps for Betrayal Recovery
Caring for the physical body can help a person recover more quickly from emotional betrayal. Here are some tips in three vital areas.
By Fay A. Klingler

The Lord’s Suburban
It had been so easy to let the Lord worry about the yellow Suburban because it was old and in need of help, but this new one was — well, it did not need help! I had to decide all over again whose car this was.
By Jeanne Boren

Into Pornography’s Dark World
Let There Be Light
What may be the most disturbing fact of all for us in a world as repulsive as the world of pornography is the reach of pornography into the lives of those least prepared to resist it our children. But if we fill the world with light, our children do not have to walk in darkness.
By Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

Honoring the Concept of Motherhood
Mother's Day isn't really about whether or not you have half-a-dozen tidy, well-mannered children sitting in church with you. It has more to do with brickwork than it does with the number of children a woman might have.
By Dawn Frandsen

I'll Always Be My Mother's Child
In so many ways our mothers are always with us. We "caught " their values, their mannerisms, their way of expressing things. Mother was our first love, first friend, and sometimes our first enemy. But no matter how much we want to be like her or different from her, her influence on us was profound.
By Darla Isackson

Finding the Door to Personal Revelation
So often we are troubled and hurried, wearied and overworked. Our life is like the journey the Jaredites anticipated across the stormy sea, where the mountain waves would dash them, they would be carried here and there by the winds and they would be tossed by strong currents. This is a journey they could not survive in the dark. We create the equivalent of 16 stones in our lives, and that is where we leave it. Until we let the Lord touch all our dizzying effort with his finger and fill it with light we are still traveling in the darkness.
By Maurine Jensen Proctor

What Forgiveness Is and Isn’t
Although only God can pardon, it is up to us to forgive as we would be forgiven.
By Fay A. Klingler

Greater Hands
This is the story of loving mothers, the blessings families receive by having committed missionaries in the field, and the greater hands we must rely on to guide our lives.
By Paul Bishop, with Jan Lee

The Spiritual Cancer called Umbrage
As Latter-day Saints, we can suffer the spiritual equivalent of road rage if we allow ourselves to do so. All it takes is for a careless word to cause us to slam on the brakes of our testimony and veer toward the shoulder of the straight and narrow path.
By Paul Bishop

Slowing Down to Do What Matters Most
Slowing down can be the most essential thing we can do to maintain our health and sanity. How do we do it, when there are so many demands on our time?
By Darla Isackson

Finding the Rest of the Lord — Right Here, Right Now!
Staying with Christ in the yoke requires serious commitment — "serious discipleship," as Elder Maxwell has said. This is not about flaky, fair-weather following. It's not about casual commitment, nor about whining all along the way that "my will be done."
By Michelle Linford

Following the Motto
How many of us are complacent in our physical preparations? How many of us need a wake-up call to get back onboard the process of preparation using single events — the putting together of an earthquake kit, or the making of a family emergency plan — to build on?
By Paul Bishop

Easter's Promise and the Second Estate
What kind of progress is possible in that in-between place between death and the resurrection? Our First Estate ended when we left our Pre-mortal existence and were born on Earth. But does our Second Estate end the moment we die and enter the Spirit World?
by Darla Isackson

Identity: Built on Rock or Sand?
Is your sense of identity intact? When poor health strips away the ability to do, an identity crisis almost always follows.
By Darla Isackson

Adoption: Do You Have a Little Love to Share?
Have you or anyone close to you has adopted a child, given a baby up for adoption, or been foster parents? If so, you will relate personally with a new CD titled Do You Have a Little Love to Share.
By Darla Isackson

Today’s Striplings
Has the time for stripling warriors come and gone, or do we need them now more than ever?
By Paul Bishop

What Values Are You Willing to Defend?
If you want to know what your values are, look at where you spend your money and your time. So many people say they value their families, yet they are not spending time with them.
By Fay A. Klingler

Spiritual Questions in Regard to Illness
Does God really want us to learn the lessons we learn from being chronically ill, or would he be just as happy to see us healthy? This is just one of many questions that plague church members who suffer from debilitating diseases.
By Darla Isackson

Spiritual Questions in Regard to Illness
Can a person be whole spiritually, mentally and emotionally while being very ill physically?Sometimes the prophets and apostles haven't been healed. Some have lived in poor health for years. What part does illness really play in the tutoring process of mortality?
By Darla Isackson

Family Persecution: When Those We Love will Not Accept Our Conversion
A spiritual conversion can set off a one-sided emotional explosion resembling the overkill of a ton weight used to crush an egg.

By Paul Bishop

How Much Support Can the Chronically Ill Expect?
Most people truly don't want and can't handle the details of how you are — even though they ask, "How are you?"  The best answer I've heard for that question is, “I'm richly blessed.”
Compiled by Darla Isackson

When Life’s Storms Arise
What are we to learn from Job and his trials? He does not teach us how to avoid suffering, for suffering is a part of the mortal experience. He teaches us, instead, about how to live in the midst of suffering and pain. Our response to suffering often reflects our discipleship.

By Sean E. Brotherson, with Jack D. Brotherson

Why Are We Here — Really?
There is more to getting a body than just picking it up. There is more to being tested than doing some routine exercises. And there are more purposes in life than just two. Instead, we have many.

By Jay A. Parry

Interacting with the Chronically Ill
Husbands, wives, ward members, and neighbors can learn what helps and what hurts those suffering from a chronic condition from the clear and excellent guidelines shared by our readers.

Reader Comments compiled by Darla Isackson

Gifts and Challenges of Chronic Illness
In many ways chronic illness has provided grains of discomfort that have evolved into pearls of faith and spiritual lessons learned, closeness to the Lord gained.

By Darla Isackson

Trusting Yourself
As you risk making life better for yourself by turning the keys of trustworthiness, knowledge, and faith in God, you come to terms with new, healthier ways of looking at and reacting to the everyday happenings of life.

By Fay A. Klingler

We are a Chair-Moving People
Your ward's chair-movers have been teaching the essentials of true religion — service to fellow beings and service to God. And they’ve been doing it, in a consistent, repetitive way, chair by chair, Sunday after Sunday, year after year.

By Mark Dixon

Shabbat Hamalka — The Sabbath Queen
The Sabbath day is the only ritual observance instituted in the Ten Commandments. Understanding Israel's Shabbat can help us as Latter-day Israel to more fully understand and appreciate our Sabbath and the symbolism behind this special day.

By Janet Lisonbee

(Almost) Seven Tips for Completing What You Write
Fear of the dark is not eliminated by turning on a light. Light only eliminates the dark. Similarly, not finishing your manuscript to avoid negative criticism does not stop the fear of rejection, only the rejection itself.
By Paul Bishop

Be Still My Soul
Loud noises affect more than physical hearing. We can also be inflicted with spiritual hearing loss. I suspect that it takes far fewer decibels of noise to damage our spiritual hearing than it does to damage our physical hearing.
By Darla Isackson

A Model of Mormon Spiritual Experience, Part 3
Personal Dialogue with Deity
When you look at the Mormon community and the Mormon faith at this level of core experience, all that defines religion anywhere exists here.
By Kevin Christensen

11 Golden Questions for Brassy Objections
Brassy questions may be the beginning of great gospel discussions.
By Truman G. Madsen

Accountability—What Part Do You Play?
Stop thinking so much on the wrong done to you. Start thinking about what is within your power to change.
By Fay A. Klingler

The Change of Heart
From Chapter 1 of The First Principles of Marriage
We do not become Celestial by adding a pinch of Jesus to a terrestrial life. At some point we simply throw ourselves on His merits, mercy and grace.
By H. Wallace Goddard

The Journey of Life
From Chapter 1 of First Principles of Marriage
The Good Samaritan story about the man who fell among thieves is a perfect description of what every person experiences in the course of mortality.
By H. Wallace Goddard

Toward a Joyful Marriage
Chapter 1 of The First Principles of Marriage
For most people, marriage can be a refuge against the storm. At other times marriage is the storm.
By H. Wallace Goddard

Theodore Abu Qurrah
There is, and always has been, an entire world of Christianity, rich and full of variety, beyond the (to us) more familiar realm of Protestants and Catholics.
By Daniel C. Peterson

Celebrating Black History Month
Jane Manning James
"We dry up tears here
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Jane Manning James said, "I try in my feeble way to set a good example to all." But her example has nothing feeble in it. Jane’s life was simply remarkable.
As transcribed by Elizabeth J.D. Roundy

The Depth of Discernment
Since as members of the Church we are called to stand as witnesses of Christ, questions arise for us. How do you recognize those who are prepared for the gospel? How can you be sure that one is receptive? How do you know the gold is in the mine?
by Truman G. Madsen

The Seven Deadly Sins of Sacrament Meeting Talks
Every week, sacrament meeting speakers present more than 17,780 hours of messages. If it's your turn at the pulpit, make sure you don't commit one of these "deadly sins."
By Christian A. Johnson

Grief and the Power of Support Groups in Recovering from Betrayal
I was so overcome with grief and shock when my reality came into focus, I think I would have gone insane if I had not talked and talked and talked. I was blessed with family and friends who let me do that.
By Fay A. Klingler

Letting Go vs. Giving Up
I simply need to let go of the “when” and “how” and “if” of my healing and concentrate on receiving and obeying the Lord's guidance in this moment. I also realize that the healing of my spirit is much more vital to my eternal salvation than the healing of my body.
By Darla Isackson

Fiscal Fitness
At this time of year, thousands of people find themselves up to their ears in debt, with no visible way out.  There are so many little tricks that help — tricks that are very easy, once you learn them. 
By Mark Slaughter

A Model of Mormon Spiritual Experience, Part 2
Encountering Order and Creativity in the Physical World
The symbols of religion guide us through the transitions and passages in our own lives and provide a means to point beyond literal meanings to truths that cannot be expressed or apprehended in any other way.
By Kevin Christensen

A Model of Mormon Spiritual Experience, Part 1
Myriad Answers to Prayer
How are prayers answered? The author has found at least 30 ways that God reaches down to answer our prayers.
By Kevin Christensen

My Diary Writing Addiction
I am reminded of a person who once remarked, “Who would be interested in anything I’ve done or have to say?” There are no such things as ordinary lives.
By Steve Orton

How to Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions
When you are interrupted, ask the crucial question, What is the most important thing I can be doing right now? Sticking by the answer can help get you back on track fast.
By Paul Bishop

Pondering Covenants with Christ
This Christmas may we all review the covenants we have made with Christ and think about the fact that the best way we can keep them is to become more like Him every day.
By Darla Isackson

God’s Gift at Christmas
Some 2005 years ago, God gave us a gift, a priceless gift, one that each of us really needs. It is a gift in the form of an opportunity, a gift that to become effective, requires something from us.
By A. Scott Loveless

Winter Solstice and the Light Within
Celebrating Christmas at winter solstice is beautifully symbolic because Christ is the Light. When we choose a connection to Him, inner darkness is dispelled. If we continue in His light, spring and summer experiences are assured.
By Darla Isackson

Safety in the Face of Betrayal
When you become aware and finally accept the reality of your betrayal, safety for you and your family must be considered. You are at greater risk for abuse when you confront your betrayer or attempt to leave.
By Fay A. Klingler

An Audience of One — Written Gifts for Those You Love
All of the old lady's stories were of little interest to the group until she informed us that she had once dated Adolf Hitler. Now there was a story unique to her experience that everybody wanted to hear!
By Paul Bishop

Acceptance — See Things for What They Really Are
As you stop and think with your brain instead of your emotions, and you lean on Heavenly Father for direction, acknowledgement and acceptance of your reality can be a comforting result.
By Fay A. Klingler

The Challenge of Accepting Ourselves
Can we apply Elder Holland’s counsel on beauty to behavioral perfectionism? Can we let go of the fictional standard of being excellent at everything and be more accepting of ourselves including our individual talents, strengths, and weaaknesses?
By Darla Isackson

Fashions You See at Church May be Shocking
Being mean, nasty, ugly and firm will get parents nowhere but hated. Boundaries need to be set by being kind, gentle, respectful ... and firm.
By Gary and Joy Lundberg

Notes from Hurricane Country
Somebody outside was shouting. It was a neighbor up to her shoulders in water, carrying a small baby. President Kelly brought them upstairs. And then they heard more shouting. Another neighbor 89 years old was caught in the flood.

By Geoffrey Biddulph

Marriage Supper of the Lamb
It is very insightful to understand marriage customs of the ancient church to more fully comprehend Christ’s role as the Bridegroom and our role as the Bride.
By Janet Lisonbee

Spiritual Storm Warnings
There is one thing we each have in common
if the losses we endure do not make us better, more compassionate people, then the suffering was in vain.
By Darla Isackson

Learning Gratitude from Hurricane Victims
Sometimes it takes people who have nothing to remind you of all the blessings you take for granted.
By Juliana Hutchins Greer 

Mormon Helping Hands Make a Difference
The news crews have left, but Mormon Helping Hands haven't forgotten the victims of Hurricane Katrina.
By Jared Johnson, with photos by Steve Moffitt, Jason Shepard, and Ed Wilson

Making a Mission Happen, Part Two
Senior missionary couples have options in serving a mission that younger missionaries don't. Explore the choices and determine what is best for you.
By Laurie Williams Sowby

Making a Mission Happen, Part One
It’s amazing what happens and how things fall into place when you finally decide to do something. The author tells her experience in getting ready for a senior mission.
By Laurie Williams Sowby

Becoming Aware of Betrayal
How do you become aware that you are being betrayed? How do you spot betrayal?
By Fay A. Klingler

Giving Peace of Mind for Christmas
This year as I'm making my list and checking it twice, I'm considering the many possible gifts that could raise the level of preparedness for those I love. (And I'm making a list of preparedness gift suggestions for those who ask for