M E R I D I A N M A G A Z I N E
Overcoming
Opposition
By D. Bryce Baker
The hymn “Where Can I Turn for Peace”
has a story for all of us. But the biggest
story may be the one behind the hymn —
the reason the hymn was written in the first
place.
As a member of the Young Women General Board,
Emma Lou Thayne was commissioned to write
a hymn that would be sung at a conference
for Young Women teachers. As she sat down
to write the hymn, thoughts of her daughter
weighed heavily on her mind.
Emma Lou Thayne’s daughter was beset
with multiple challenges in life. Nineteen-year-old
Becky suffered from eating disorders as well
as from bipolar disease. The challenges facing
the young girl were grave, and as much as
the anguished mother looked for solutions
for her daughter’s problems there were
none on the horizon.
The hymn was written as the mother asked the
questions that were in her own mind: “Where
can I turn for peace? Where is my solace?”
When the poem was finished, Sister Thayne
called a woman who had collaborated with her
on other songs — Joleen Meredith. There
was clinical depression in Sister Meredith’s
own family, so she well understood the anguish
behind the lyrics. The two of them collaborated
on the new hymn over the telephone, and the
hymn ready in time to be performed on the
program.
Later, Becky was healed with the help of new
medicines.
Sister Thayne’s experience and the lyrics
she wrote teach us of the need to turn to
Christ when we face opposition. Sometimes
He is the only one that can help us, that
can comfort us, that can heal us. The miraculous
creation of the hymn reveals a God who stands
ready to perform miracles.
“Opposition in All Things”
The prophet Lehi taught that there must be
opposition in all things. Without opposition,
there is no agency. Without opposition, there
is no learning or growth. Without opposition,
there is no testing of our faith and obedience.
It is our choices in the face of opposition
that prove our faith and develop our character.
To obtain exaltation, we must follow Christ,
overcoming all opposition that may arise during
our life’s journey.
Opposition that hinders us from following Christ comes in many forms, such as:
! Satan’s temptations
! Actions of evil people inspired by Satan
! Actions of people who are misguided, reckless, careless, or thoughtless
! Our own “natural man” desires and other spiritual weaknesses
! Random misfortunes (such as natural disasters, accidents)
! Physical or health challenges
! Emotional challenges (such as depression or self-esteem problems)
! Economic difficulties
! Relationship difficulties
Stories from
the scriptures and from other sources focus
on how we cope with opposition in all its
forms. Here are some of those stories, along
with some of the lessons those stories teach
us.
Nephi and the Brass Plates [1
Nephi chapters 3-4]
The story of Nephi and the brass plates teaches
us much about overcoming opposition. Father
Lehi sent Nephi and his brothers back to Jerusalem
to get the brass plates from a wicked man,
Laban. Their first two attempts to get the
plates failed miserably.
Then Nephi’s brothers, Laman and Lemuel,
opposed him too. But Nephi did not give up
on the mission he had been given. He tried
again, putting his trust in the Lord. He had
faith that the Lord would open the way to
accomplish His purposes. He let himself be
“led by the Spirit” and the Lord
delivered Laban and the plates into his hands.
Nephi succeeded because he persisted and trusted
the Lord absolutely.
I think there were reasons behind the two
failures — the failures tested Nephi’s
faith and gave him a chance to grow in faith;
they exposed his brothers’ lack of faith;
they provided a justification for taking Laban’s
life (which was probably the only way to get
the plates), and they made the recovery of
the plates a true miracle that gave inspiration
to generations.
Nephi’s experience teaches us that failures
or detours can turn out to be part of the
Lord’s plan to accomplish his purposes.
Perhaps God sometimes lets us go into dead
ends to keep us from going the wrong direction
or from acting at the wrong time. We need
to trust in the Lord and the promptings of
his Spirit. Sometimes we need to follow the
Spirit without understanding why.
Nephi’s Struggles
Even Nephi had personal struggles. If you
read 2 Nephi 4, you see that he struggled
with temptation — specifically the temptation
to be angry with his enemies. He felt discouragement.
But then he remembered all the blessings the
Lord has bestowed upon him. He found hope
and wrote:
He prayed for
the Lord’s help and declared his faith
that God would answer his prayer. From this
story, we learn the importance of remembering
the Lord’s blessings in our lives, of
pondering his love and mercy, of being positive,
of praying for help, and of trusting in God’s
willingness to help us.
Alma’s People in Bondage
[Mosiah 23:25 through 24:25]
The prophet Alma led a group of people into
the wilderness to escape from King Noah’s
army. They found a safe haven but were later
discovered by the Lamanites and placed in
bondage. Worst of all, their taskmasters were
the wicked priests of King Noah, who persecuted
them and ordered them not to pray with a penalty
of death.
How could they deal with such extreme opposition?
They prayed. They were comforted. The Lord
promised to ease the burdens on their shoulders,
that they would not feel them. He kept his
promise.
In Mosiah 24:15 we read:
And now it came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord.
Note that the
Lord did not immediately remove their burdens
by freeing them from bondage, but instead
strengthened them. He did free them in a miraculous
way later, after they had been tested and
refined. Sometimes in our lives we must carry
burdens of various sorts and relief does not
come right away. But like the people of Alma,
the Lord will give us strength so that we
can carry those burdens. We need to be positive
and patient.
Alma and His Rebellious Son
[Mosiah 27:8-37; especially 14, 21-22]
The prophet Alma had a difficult child, his
namesake, Alma. Alma the Younger was living
a wicked life and seeking to destroy the church.
An angel appeared to Alma the Younger and
the four sons of Mosiah to confront them that
they might be convinced of God’s power.
The angel told them that he came in response
to the prayers of Alma’s father, who
had “prayed with much faith” that
his son might be brought to know the truth.
Alma the Younger, who could not move, was
carried to his father who rejoiced that God
had answered his prayers.
Then his father gathered the priests of the
church together to fast and pray. After two
days of fasting and praying, Alma received
strength and stood and bore testimony that
he had been born of God. From this story,
we learn the importance of a parent’s
love, of not giving up on a wayward child,
of praying with faith, of fasting, and of
calling on members of the Church for help.
The Missionary Sons of King Mosiah
[Alma 17:9-12, 26:27, 20:29-30, 21:10, 14,16,17,
22:1-3]
After the four sons of King Mosiah were converted
along with Alma the Younger, they felt compelled
to go preach the gospel to the Lamanites.
It was a daunting endeavor. The Lamanites
hated the Nephites. As the four sons of Mosiah
and their missionary companions traveled to
the land of the Lamanites, they became discouraged.
In Alma 26:27, we read:
And in another
account at Alma 17:9-12, we read how they
“fasted much and prayed much that the
Lord would grant unto them a portion of his
Spirit to go with them, and abide in them.”
Their prayers were answered. The Spirit did
visit them and comfort them and give them
courage. They went forward and spent 14 years
among the Lamanites. They indeed suffered
much — including imprisonment —
before they had success. But in the end, because
they endured, thousands of Lamanites were
converted to the gospel.
From this story, we learn that choosing the
right sometimes attracts further opposition.
We learn the importance of prayer and fasting.
We learn that the Spirit is a source of comfort
and courage. And we learn the importance of
patience.
Alma the Younger and the Zoramites
[Alma chapter 31]
Alma the Younger led a group of missionaries
to preach the gospel to the apostate Zoramites.
This was a missionary Dream Team, consisting
of Alma the Younger, Amulek, Zeezrom, the
four sons of Mosiah (Ammon, Aaron, Omner,
and Himni), and two of Alma’s sons (Shiblon
and Coriaton).
When they saw how great a state of wickedness
the Zoramites were in, Alma prayed for strength,
comfort, and patience for himself and his
companions. Alma clapped his hands upon his
companions and they were filled with the Holy
Spirit. In Alma 31:38, we read:
The Lord ... gave them strength, that they should suffer no manner of afflictions, save it were swallowed up in the joy of Christ. Now this was according to the prayer of Alma; and this because he prayed in faith.
These missionaries
had success with the poor class of the people,
whom Alma taught that faith can grow like
a seed. In this story, we see the important
role played by a priesthood leader and by
the Holy Ghost. Again, we see the importance
of prayer and faith.
Helaman’s Army [Alma
chapter 58]
The army of Helaman, including the 2000 stripling
warriors, were badly outnumbered by the Lamanites.
They waited for more assistance from Zarahemla,
but little help came. Food was in short supply.
Finally, they poured out their souls to God.
We read in Alma 58:11:
Yea, and it came to pass that the Lord our God did visit us with assurances that he would deliver us; yea, insomuch that he did speak peace to our souls, and did grant unto us great faith, and did cause us that we should hope for our deliverance in him.
Helaman’s
men took courage and with their small force
took went on the offensive and prevailed,
driving the Lamanites out of the land. Sometimes
when we face opposition, we need to go on
the offensive too.
Warren Johnson Holding Fast to the
Iron Rod [November 2004 Ensign]
In the October 2004 General Conference, Elder
Joseph B. Wirthlin told the story of a man,
Warren Johnson, who, back in the 1890s, was
assigned by the Church with his family to
operate a ferry in a remote location in the
desert of northern Arizona. Visitors brought
diphtheria to their home. Within a short time,
four of his children died despite prayer and
fasting.
The bereaved father was distraught, yet he
expressed his resolve to “hold fast
to the iron rod no matter what troubles”
came upon him. This man gives a key to dealing
with opposition. The iron rod is the word
of God — meaning the scriptures; the
words of the living prophet, apostles, and
other church leaders; and personal revelation
from the Holy Ghost. To overcome opposition,
those are the things to which we must hold
fast.
Donna’s Hard Life [May
2004 Ensign, page 99]
At the April 2004 General Conference, Elder
Bruce Hafen told a story about a friend who
faced considerable adversity during her life:
My friend Donna grew up desiring to marry and raise a large family. But that blessing never came. Instead, she spent her adult years serving the people in her ward with unmeasured compassion and counseling disturbed children in a large school district. She had crippling arthritis and many long, blue days. Yet she always lifted and was always lifted by her friends and family.
Once when teaching about Lehi’s dream, she said with gentle humor, “I’d put myself in that picture on the strait and narrow path, still holding to the iron rod but collapsed from fatigue right on the path.”
In an inspired blessing given just before her death, Donna’s home teacher said the Lord “accepted” her. Donna cried. She had never felt her single life was acceptable. But the Lord said those who “observe their covenants by sacrifice ... are accepted of me.” I can envision Him walking the path from the tree of life to lift Donna up with gladness and carry her home.
Sometimes, the
best we can do is just hang on to the iron
rod for dear life. The Lord accepts our offering
of “all we can do” and makes up
the difference. His grace is sufficient.
Tongan Missionary Miracle
[The Fire of Faith, by John Groberg,
pp. 165-170]
Elder John Groberg of the Seventy served as
a missionary and a mission president in Tonga.
Many of you have seen the movie The Other
Side of Heaven, which was based on a
book he wrote of his experiences as a young
missionary. He experienced much adversity
but endured it all and pressed forward, and
had much success.
He wrote a second book called The Fire
of Faith about his experiences as a mission
president. He told a story of a young missionary,
Elder Vai, a native Tongan, who had four months
left on his mission. He was the only member
of the Church in his family. His father was
a preacher in another church and was very
upset that his son had joined the Church and
even more upset when he chose to go on a mission.
Now at the end of Elder Vai’s mission,
President Groberg began to receive strong
impressions that he needed to send Elder Vai
to serve in his hometown. Following the Spirit
instead of logic and reason, he transferred
Elder Vai to his home village — to the
shock of all the missionaries. Elder Vai’s
father learned of the transfer and stood up
in his church and charged all the people to
not allow the missionaries into their homes
and assured them that they would soon give
up and leave the village. Every Sunday he
denounced the missionaries.
After four weeks, Elder Vai and his companion
had worked diligently but had not taught a
single discussion in the village. President
Groberg met with the missionaries and suggested
that they pray together and said “whatever
you feel is what we will do.” After
the prayer, Elder Vai quietly said “I’m
going back to my area.”
That same day, a Sunday, Elder Vai’s
father did not say a word about his son at
his church. On Monday morning, Elder Vai and
his companion were again on the streets of
village. They saw a man waving them to come
to his house. To their surprise, it was Elder
Vai’s father. He wanted to know what
gave his son the determination to keep coming
back despite all the rejection.
Elder Vai testified to his father that he
was on the side of truth and that truth would
prevail. More discussions followed. Within
a short time, Elder Vai’s father and
mother and some other family members were
ready for baptism. The father chose to walk
the entire length of the village from his
home to the beach in his white baptismal clothes.
Elder Vai finished his mission in his hometown
and before he left saw a total of 40 persons
baptized.
Desire to Smoke [March 1996
Ensign, “I Tried to Quit Dozens
of Times,” page 65]
In the March 1996 Ensign, Shirley R. Warren
told a story of how she had stopped attending
church as a young woman and acquired a smoking
habit. She married and had eight children,
and sent them to church without her, but finally
felt a desire to become fully active herself.
Her smoking habit stood in the way. She had
tried to quit smoking dozen of times but always
failed.
She described what happened:
One day ... I knelt at the foot of my bed to ask the Lord’s help in overcoming the habit that held me prisoner. As I prayed, a man’s name came into my mind. Brother Fred Lisonbee had come to our home once as a stake missionary, but there was no reason I could think of that his name should mean anything to me. Yet his name refused to leave my mind. I decided that perhaps there was a reason for his name persisting in my mind. I got up and called him.
Dr. Lisonbee was a busy chiropractor; I realized that just as he answered the telephone. I suddenly felt foolish. He said he remembered me and asked what he could do for me. “Brother Lisonbee, I am trying very hard to quit smoking, but I just can’t do it. I was hoping you might have a suggestion.” Without hesitation, he said, “Why don’t you ask the Lord to take away the desire to smoke?”
I was stunned. Unable to think of a reply, I thanked him and returned to my bedroom and thought about what he had said.
Finally I knelt again and prayed for my desire to smoke to be taken away. During my prayer, I felt as if someone were pouring a big pitcher of warm water over my head, the water rushing down, over, and through me. As the pitcher emptied, I was filled. Weeping, I got up from my knees and knew that somehow I was different; something wonderful had happened.
My desire to smoke and the seemingly unyielding addiction to tobacco were washed away as if I had never smoked. From that time on I attended church with my children. Now they attend church with their children. I am eternally grateful to a Heavenly Father who helps us as we strive to repent and keep his commandments.
Prayer
in the Parking Lot [“A Prayer
in the Parking Lot,” Ensign,
Aug. 1992, page 58]
In the August 1992 Ensign, a man
told a story of how he grew up in the Church
but lost his way, and became entangled in
drugs and other vices. He was broke, sick,
jobless, and friendless. One night, he found
himself searching through trash cans behind
a supermarket for food. I’ll let him
tell the rest of his story in his own words:
Elder
Scott & Admiral Rickover [Ensign,
June 1997, “Do What Is Right”,
pp. 52-53]
Elder Richard G. Scott tells a story of how
he worked for 11 years for Admiral Hyman Rickover,
the father of the nuclear navy. Elder Scott
received a call from the First Presidency
to preside over a mission. He informed Admiral
Rickover that he would have to quit. Admiral
Rickover became upset, swore, broke the paper
tray on his desk, and accused him of being
a traitor to his country.
He said “I never will talk to you again.
You are finished, not only here, but don’t
ever plan to work in the nuclear field again
... If that’s the way Mormons act, I
don’t want any of them working for me.”
Elder Scott was concerned that other members
of the Church would be hurt, but the Spirit
told him to do what is right, let the consequence
follow. Over the next two months, Elder Scott
trained his replacement. The Admiral ceased
to speak to him and they had to communicate
through a third party.
Elder Scott then tells what happened next:
My last day in the office I asked for an appointment with him. His secretary gasped. I went with a copy of the Book of Mormon in my hand. He looked at me and said, “Sit down, Scott, what do you have? I have tried every way I can to force you to change. What is it you have?” There followed a very interesting, quiet conversation. There was more listening this time. He said he would read the Book of Mormon. Then something I never thought would occur happened. He added: “When you come back from the mission, I want you to call me. There will be a job for you.”
From Elder Scott’s experience,
we learn that we must be committed to do the right thing no matter
the cost. We must trust the Lord. Also, we must not give up on those
who seem to be in the opposition. Hearts can be changed.
Joseph Smith’s Vision of Discouraged Apostles [The
Radiant Life, Truman G. Madsen, p.43]
I have read that Joseph Smith once had a vision of the apostles in
foreign lands. He saw them standing together with their heads bowed
down in discouragement because of the adversities they were facing.
Because they were looking down, they could not see that the Savior
was there, just above them, ready to help them if they would ask.
All they needed to do was look up, but they kept their heads down.
The Savior was weeping. It was said that Joseph Smith could not describe
this vision without shedding tears himself.
Peter Walking on Water
The last story is about the time when Christ’s disciples saw
him walking on the sea. The apostle Peter tried to go to Jesus and
began to walk on the water. He had faith in Christ but then the strong
winds made him afraid and he began to sink. In Matthew 14:30-31, we
read: “he cried, saying, Lord, save me. And immediately
Jesus stretched forth his hand and caught him.”
These last two stories teach us that the Savior loves us and stands
ready to reach out to help us in our extremities. We need to believe
in him and believe that he loves us personally, that we are precious
to him. We need only ask in faith for help and he will respond immediately
— and provide healing in some form. Sometimes he will remove
a burden and sometimes he will bless us with comfort, understanding,
strength, and patience to bear the burdens placed upon us.
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