Youth of the Noble
Birthright
By Darla
Isackson with Rosa Sedillo
Now
this was the faith of these of whom I have spoken;
they are young, and their minds are firm, and they
do put their trust in God continually. Alma 57:27
In the October,
2005 General Conference, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
addressed his remarks to the Young Women of the
Church. He said:
This afternoon I
wish to raise my voice in praise of you, to express
my love, my encouragement, and admiration for you...
You are literally a spirit daughter of heavenly
parents with a divine nature and an eternal destiny.
Your Father in Heaven knows your name and knows
your circumstance. He hears your prayers. He knows
your hopes and dreams, including your fears and
frustrations. And He knows what you can become through
faith in Him (Ensign, November, 2005, p.
28).
In the past few
months I have been inspired by one of the young
women Elder Holland was speaking to, and I raise
my voice in praise of her. I believe her example
can lift us all.
Rosa Sedillo, from
Palmetto, Florida, is a faithful LDS young woman
just finishing her junior year in high school. Only
rarely have I received an e-mail from a Meridian
reader in that age group, and only rarely have I
received e-mails so full of light and testimony.
However improbable, no matter how far away in miles
and different in age and circumstance, Rosa and
I have become dear friends. I find her an amazing
example of a Saturday's Warrior-type spirit,
one of the answers to the question in the song “Who
are these children coming down?” Young people like
Rosa renew my hope for the future and leave me in
awe of their strength in the face of horrific temptations.

Rosa Sedillo
Rosa first wrote
to me about my Enos article, saying:
I was wondering
how the Atonement applied to me personally, and
I prayed that the Lord would let me know in His
own time. The next day I received an e-mail that
featured your article, “A New Look at Enos"!
Now, I love Enos for so many reasons. I am moved
every time I think about how the Lord answered my
prayer. I know that the Lord does answer prayers
and that He does love me.
The next time I
heard from her she said,
I'm not sure if
you remember me but my name is Rosa Sedillo. I wrote
to you some time ago thanking you for the wonderful
article you wrote concerning Enos. He is my favorite
Book of Mormon prophet. Well Darla, as you know,
the world is getting harder to live in with every
day that goes by. My spirit strives to stay strong
and be an example to my fellow youth around me,
but sometimes I feel no longer worthy of the Lord's
sweet spirit. It hurts me whenever i feel distant
from that beautiful spirit that comforts me.
I learned that Rosa
is the youngest of 12 children. Her parents, Gilberto
and Florinda Sedillo, were both migrant farm workers
who worked in the fields from the age of 11. Although
deprived of education themselves, they were determined
that their six boys and six girls would not be!
After decades of working
in the fields, Rosa's father now owns his own auto
repair shop, “Sedillo and Sons.” Rosa's mother began
attending night school in her 40s and received her
GED, all the while still working in the fields.
Rosa has had a great appreciation for the blessings
of going to school, but it education in the gospel
that has made the greatest difference in her life.
Rosa said of her parents,
They have raised
us well and have loved us more than enough. My father
is a good father. He is a friend of mine who I can
always count on to make me smile. He is a member
of the Church but is not active. If there is anything
I have learned from my father it is hard work. I
have never had to work hard to survive like he has
done all his life. All his life he worked hard for
his children to have a better life then he has had.
I love him and he knows it! I gave a presentation
in one of my classes last year and talked a bit
about my parents being examples to me.
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Rosa and Her
Mother — Two Women of Faith
When I wrote the
articles about chronic illness, Rosa replied,
I find it so interesting
that you said illness has been a major trial in
your life because my mom has the same problem. She
has been sick for 14 years and if it's not one thing
it's the other. She has always been a woman of faith
and trust that the Lord would take good care of
her despite her illness.
I want to share
something I shared with her not to long ago. When
all is done and after I come to see my Heavenly
Father and my Savior Jesus Christ the first man
I want to meet is Enos. I bet you knew that. The
first woman that I want to meet is the woman who
had a sickness to do with her blood. She knew that
if she touched the Master's robe she would be healed.
I adore her so much for that kind of faith.
One day as I told
my mom these things a whisper came and I heard these
exact words, “You don't have to wait. Your [mother
is] a sick woman with that same faith.” I turned
to my mother and told her what I heard and she just
sat on the bed with a big smile. That's when I was
reminded that He works wonders and sometimes we
are just too blind to see them. I love my mother
for the faith that she has shown to me in the Father
and in the Son.
In regard to my
own discouragement with my health, Rosa shared her
great faith when she said,
I may not be the
smartest person or know all the Gospel doctrine
and still a Young Woman, but I do have a testimony
and I do love my Heavenly Father and my Savior.
Just as they love me, they love you and they know
you. They are proud and are thankful for all you
do in bring forth the Kingdom. Remember that! You
are a daughter of God and He will always be there
when you need Him. He will never fail you. May He
bless you in all the good that you continue to do.
You are a blessing and don't you forget it!
The Importance
of Young Women Leaders
Rosa continued,
One of my Young
Women leaders — who is my best friend next to the
Savior — tells me that I am too hard on myself but
that I can't see it. How do you feel about that?
Can one really be too hard on one's self? I have
noticed that half the time I will be the happy person
I always want to be and the other half I feel failure
or unworthiness. It helps me so much to be able
to relate to your feelings [and to my leader's feelings]
and how you deal with them and how you always trust
in the Lord. I want nothing more than to live a
life worthy to stand before my Savior knowing I
did everything possible in my power to please Him.
He is the reason I am here on this earth today.
I am forever in debt to Him for the love He showed
to me when He suffered and died for me to have a
way back to my Heavenly Father.
So began a correspondence
that has been a great blessing to us both. I set
out to give her reassurance and she gave in turn
gave me encouragement and inspiration. Since
those first e-mails, Rosa has sent me many amazing
words of testimony worthy of quotation. At one point
she wrote,
I hope that one
day you will write an article concerning the youth
and how much they are worth because too many of
us forget it. I have learned that if ever I feel
I'm worth nothing or not much I can think of the
Savior and all He has and will continue to do for
me — all because He loves me. What greater blessing
could there be than to mean so much to someone I
love so much.
When I asked permission
to quote her for this article and told her I was
using the title “Youth of the Noble Birthright”
Rosa's enthusiasm nearly jumped off the computer
screen in her return e-mail. Among other things,
she said,
As a youth I love
to hear that we are a chosen generation and I do
believe by being reminded we become that much stronger
and willing to do better!
It means so much
to hear you say that there are many in my generation
that are chosen. It reminds me that no matter how
hard things become in life, my Heavenly Father will
never leave me alone. It reminds me that He chose
me to come forth at this time because He believed
that I would make it!! I know that at times when
I feel I am not enough or when I can't believe in
myself He is always there reminding me that I am
enough and that He believes in me. I am so thankful
to my very best friend, the Savior of us all, Jesus
Christ. It is because of Him that I stand strong
today and without Him my life would mean nothing.
Around Christmastime,
Rosa wrote,
I too have noticed
that many people have forgotten the true meaning
of Christmas. It makes me sad at times but I know
in my heart why it is happening and why it has to
happen. It's because the Savior's 2nd coming is
close. People will forget Him and all that He has
done for them in their lives and turn to the ways
of the world. I just pray that we as Latter-day
Saints who know the truth will be an example of
that truth to the world. He is our Savior and all
my days I will stand to represent Him the best I
know how. I know with all my heart that "He
lives". He has comforted me in times when I
needed comfort. He has shed tears with me when life
has become so hard and I feel I can't go on. What
I am indeed thankful for above everything is knowing
that He loves me enough to do anything for me. Even
when I have failed Him or have not given my all
He is always there to finish what I cannot. I love
Him so much that words can never express it. If
it were not for amazing examples, we as the youth
would not know the difference we make in the world.
I strongly believe [they] were sent to help me understand
my worth and mission for our Heavenly Father on
this earth.
Rosa's Busy Life
When I asked how
old she was, I was surprised to learn she was only
a junior in high school. (She seems mature beyond
her years.) She said,
I really look forward
to my senior year! I have learned a lot in High
School. Not just out of the books but I think God
has opened my eyes a little wider to see how many
people need a good example, need a good friend or
just need someone that believes in them. The Lord
has blessed me with a love for others. A love that
looks past their problems and loves them for them!
School is hard and
I know because I live it. Every day becomes harder
but every day I become that much stronger. The one
thing that keeps me going is knowing my Savior is
right there, right beside me. Knowing that He loves
me and wants me back in His presence. Knowing that
He went through all the pain, all the worries, all
the sorrow that life will bring but still chose
to make my way clear. I love Him enough to have
the one desire to spend all my life doing all I
can to one day be worthy to fall on my knees and
thank Him for all He has given me. So in all it's
my testimony that helps me get through every day
in this life and I thank my God for it.
Early morning seminary
is an important part of Rosa's life. She said,
I go to seminary
every morning. It has helped me grow a lot these
past years and I want other youth to know that yeah,
life does get busy but nobody should ever be too
busy to give some of their time to the Lord and
His gospel. Seminary is a great way to give Him
our time and learn at the same time.
Rosa plays soccer,
works hard in school, is active in the Young Women
program and likes to accompany sister missionaries
when needed. When I wrote her about my youngest
stepson leaving on a mission to the New York South
mission, she wrote,
It's wonderful to
hear that your stepson is going on a mission! Someday
if I'm not married yet I want to serve a mission!
I love the work!! The happiness I feel when sharing
the gospel is amazing! I've been going out with
the sister missionaries a lot lately and I've loved
every minute!
She told me she
loved attending Especially for Youth and how much
her testimony was strengthened there. Here is a
picture of her at EFY with one of the leaders, Travis.

Rosa with Travis, one of her favorite
EFY leaders.
She also sent me
a picture of prom night, noting that Heavenly Father
would be pleased with young women modestly dressed.

Rosa and modestly dressed friends
at the prom.
She wrote and told
me how stressful school is right now and how pressured
she felt. I reminded her that “this too will pass.”
She replied,
I was telling my
mother how I feel tired emotionally, physically,
spiritually, mentally and anything else you can
think of. I am so ready for this summer and all
it has waiting for me. It's because of the people
closest to me that I feel like holding on stronger
and stronger in such a stressful time. I know that
in a few days all this will pass and that my Savior
is at my side knowing the way that I feel and just
the thought of Him walking with me every day makes
it a lot easier to say, "It will pass.”
Rosa's Philosophy:
How to Pull Out of Down Times
After she made it
through a hard week, she wrote,
I know I'm only
a young woman but I as a young woman have my hard
times too. I told myself that I was going to try
my hardest to regain the Lord's spirit today, and
that is exactly what happened. I was filled with
comfort and peace. I was in a room with church music
(It helps me to invite the Spirit) along with my
scriptures and trust that the Savior would be with
me as I cried unto my Heavenly Father with a sincere
heart. I left the room with a reassurance that I
do have a Father in heaven who loves me so much.
I have a Savior who I can turn to for anything.
He is my best friend and it is through Him that
I will make it back to my Father in heaven. I am
a member of His true church and I am thankful for
having it in my life. I know with all my heart that
if I continue to trust in the Savior and do all
that I have been called to do I will return to live
with Him and my Heavenly Father.
I would not know
happiness if I didn't know unhappiness. We, as
disciples of Christ, will be tested, and the Savior
Himself knows what that feels like! What happiness
it has brought to me to realize that my Savior knows
me, knows what I can handle and what I cannot handle.
I love Him and I will spend my whole life serving
Him. This is where I have come to find my happiness
— the happiness that will last even after this life.
I love Him so much and I am forever thankful for
knowing it!
Today was a really
hard day for me. I ran into a problem in school
with a teacher of mine who said something very mean
and untrue about the Church. It hurt my spirit so
badly, and I knew I could not let it go on without
standing for what is right and what is true. It
was a hard thing to have to tell me teacher he was
wrong but I would not allow him to speak about my
Father in Heaven and his Church without standing
up for it. I knew that if I didn't say anything
I would offend my God and I would not dare do so.
I promised Him that
if He chose to send me to this earth that I would
spend my life standing as a witness of Him and His
gospel and so I stand today knowing that even though
it was hard He is proud that I chose to stay true
to that promise. I will continue to do so because
He and my Savior are my Rock and no matter what
comes my way I know I will never be alone.
Darla, I now know
more then I have ever before known in my life that
My Heavenly Father and Savior are always with me.
This brings me such happiness! After the trial then
comes the blessing, it's true!
Rosa's Gratitude
for Up Times
One of her celebration
e-mails began,
I am thankful for
the time I have to share with you the happiness
I have felt all day. Today was such a wonderful
day! I bore my testimony in church about how the
Lord will always be by our side when life becomes
hard or just too much. I know it to be true. My
Young Women class was great as well.
Yesterday night
I felt the need to read the Liahona. As I
looked through it I came across a talk from Elder
Henry B. Eyring called, “Remembering Him Always.”
This talk spoke to me with such a strong presence
of the Lord's spirit. I loved it! I am so thankful
to have a testimony and know with all my heart that
I am indeed a daughter of God. He is my Father and
I will strive to do anything in my power to return
to Him along with my Savior and best friend Jesus
Christ.
Rosa's Faith
in and Support for Her Brother
After I wrote her
about my experience of speaking at a Sunday meeting
of women at the prison, Rosa replied,
It's amazing how
you brought up the experience you had at the prison
because my brother is in jail. He made some bad
choices in his life, but I believe my brother has
a wonderful spirit within [like you felt about those
women]. I write to him, pray and do all in my power
to help him. Above all I trust the Lord to help
him. The Lord knows what is best and I trust Him.
I sent my brother the Enos article as well. He liked
it a lot, too!”
Times are becoming
harder and it's those close to me that help me the
most — that are always helping me to see my trials
in a different way, the way I know the Lord wants
me to see them — as lessons and later a blessing.
I want to share with you some amazing news. My brother
who is in jail [was originally sentenced to serve
45 years but] was told today that he was only going
to have to serve 4 years. My mother has cried [tears
of gratitude] all day because she has asked the
Lord to hear her cry along with His in helping my
brother get out. My brother has changed so much,
Darla, that it touches my heart and is another testimony
to me that God the Father does hear our prayers.
I love the Lord
and it is indeed my desire to serve Him. With every
day that goes by I understand that it will become
a little harder but with every day that He gives
me I will try that much harder.
Rosa's Testimony
and Precious Friendships
Rosa wrote recently,
I think to myself how
thankful I am to be a young woman in the Church
at this time — to know in my heart that I
have a Heavenly Father who loves and cares for me
so much. He wants all of His children to return
home to live with Him in His presence and will do
all in His power to help us do so. He showed that
power when He gave the life of His son Jesus, who
is indeed is our Savior! I rejoice in knowing that
through Jesus I can be forgiven for all of my wrongdoings
and shortcomings if I am sincere. I am so happy
to know that if I do all that I can on my part in
this life the Savior will be there to make up the
rest of what I can not. I am filled with gratitude
for my Savior — my best friend!
I believe with all
my heart that the Lord sent me your Enos article
when I needed to understand the Atonement a little
better and that He knew where it would bring the
both of us awhile later — wrapped in a precious
friendship — a friendship that I can feel
the Lord blessed.”
Young women like Rosa
make my heart sing. They teach and encourage those
of us who have lived long enough to get careworn
and weary. They show an example of Christ-like love
and “Son of Helaman”-like faith. They
are a magnificent reflection of faithful mothers
and Young Women leaders. They make all efforts to
teach and show a good example more than worth it
— and they end up being the ones who show
the best example to us! They are truly our hope
for the future.
Here are Rosa’s
thoughts at the end of the school year: