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Our Troops Need Your Christmas Gift of Love
By Gary and Joy Lundberg

In a distant land not far from the very place where Christ was born live a grateful people who are learning for the first time to sing freedom’s song. They are in the throes of establishing their own democracy, and it is our valiant sons and daughters in the performance of their military duty in Iraq and Afghanistan who are making this glorious blessing possible.  In the process, they are giving each of us a safer place to live and raise our families.

Words cannot express our gratitude for their sacrifice, but we must try.  They are in desperate need of hearing from all of us, and there’s no better time than Christmas — a time when they wish to be with their families more than ever.  It’s the perfect season to show Christ’s love for each of them through our caring.

They’re getting a little discouraged.  We know.  Our son Michael is serving in Baghdad right now in his Army National Guard infantry unit — he’s been there almost a year. He patrols the streets in a Humvee with his fellow soldiers, and when he’s not doing that he’s standing guard in sandbag-protected base towers, among other duties.  It keeps us and his wife, children and other family members praying for him constantly.

On some Sundays when he’s lucky he gets to attend a sacrament meeting on base with his fellow Latter-Day Saint comrades. In full military gear, with weapons in hand, they pass and partake of the sacred emblems of the sacrament.  They are striving to stay close to the Lord in the midst of an unprecedented style of war, a war where the enemy cannot be easily identified, and yet surrounded by a majority of people who are grateful beyond words for the new life they have been given. Because of the uncertainty of who the enemy is, they and the people they are there to protect walk in harm’s way constantly.

What Can We Do?

There is something we can do, along with our prayers, to lighten their load and express our appreciation.  It’s simple.  They need to receive a Christmas card or letter from each one of us.  That’s all, just a card or letter with a message of love and encouragement and a big Merry Christmas wish.  If you have someone in your family, ward or neighborhood who is serving be sure to write to them. 

Beyond that there are thousands of our military men and women who need to hear from us, too.  Please send a minimum of one card or letter to each of the five addresses below, addressing it to Defender of our Freedom, in C/O the address given. If we all do at least this much, thousands of our military men and women will receive a card or letter for Christmas.

Why We Must Do It

Our service men and women hear on their limited access to televised news that most people in the United States support them, but not the war.  It’s a terrible mixed message and it’s having a negative effect on their morale.  It sounds like “we love you, but hate what you are doing.”  Fox News show host Sean Hannity put it this way, “It’s like a man coming home to his wife and saying ‘I love you, but I hate how you keep our house!”  He said, “Say that and find out where you’ll sleep that night.”  This kind of support just doesn’t work.

Personally, we would like to shout from the housetops of every major city in Iraq and the U.S. that we absolutely support them and what they are doing.  This article is our way of doing that very thing. We rejoice in the great work they are accomplishing as they put their lives on the line every day. What a marvelous thing it is to bring freedom to a nation and at the same time ensure greater protection and peace to our own. 

Oh, yes! We unequivocally support the mission they are on!  And we are extremely proud of them all, and feel confident that you are, too, and that you will respond to this request.  We hope you will involve your children and even have them draw a Christmas or patriotic picture to send along, if they’d like.

Where to Send Cards and Letters

We contacted the Church Military Relations department and spoke with Brother Richard Whaley regarding the best way to send letters to them.  He was very pleased with the idea and emailed us the names of chaplains and group leaders we could contact for information on where the letters can be sent.  Emails from these chaplains and group leaders came to us almost immediately.  The letters can be sent to them and they will pass them out to those in their areas of responsibility. A sample of their appreciation is shown in this excerpt from Chaplain Randall K. Au’s letter:

How grateful we are for your love and support in bringing the festive spirit of the holidays to our servicemen and women serving in the armed forces.  It is truly a blessing unto us that members of the church are anxious to exercise the pure love of Christ, charity, through their faith and testimonies, their hope of peace and protection to our soldiers, airmen, sailors, and marines serving in combat zones, and to share their holiday traditions with these men and women.

We have many single adults, ages ranging from 19 years of age to their early 20s, serving throughout this operational theater.  We have a particular concern for this group and would encourage those branches, wards, and stakes who have single adults deployed in these areas to write to them expressing their love and support, their prayers and hope. 

Many of our single adults experience many adversarial challenges that test their faith and testimonies daily.  Letters and/or cards from home (family, friends, community, church leaders/members, etc) would truly strengthen their faith and testimonies, giving them the strength and courage to rise above their challenges.  I bear witness that these letters and/or cards received from church leaders and members have been uplifting to their spirits, and at times have provided answers to their prayers.

Thank you for your faith and your testimony, for your love and support generously given to our members especially at this time of year.

Excepts from Two Letters Being Sent

Two retired military officers living in our ward, Donald Andrews (U.S. Army) and Howard “Al” Christy (U.S. Marines), have written inspiring letters to our son, with copies to be given to other soldiers.  With their permission here are some excerpts from their letters.

From Brother Andrews:

Let me begin by telling you how proud I am of you and all of our service personnel who are, in one way or another, engaged in the war against terrorism.  Those who have served or who are currently serving in Afghanistan or Iraq are on the front lines of this crucial battle. Our nation is at war and I regret that much of our media tend to forget this fact and focus only on the negative.

Those who say they support our military but not the war are simply naive or misguided at best or have, at worst, a much more sinister motive with their ‘cut and run’ agenda.  How the lessons of September 11, 2001 can be ignored by those who favor this poorly thought-out agenda is beyond my understanding.  To leave before the job is done and a democratic Iraq is firmly established would create chaos and totally dishonor the memory of our fallen comrades.

Let me reassure you that, despite what our liberal media may report, many of the people in this wonderful country of ours understand that you are in harm’s way every day to protect our freedoms and way of life.  The terrorists are desperately trying to prevent the creation of a free and democratic Iraq.  Yet the Iraqi people are courageously moving toward that goal.  Our cause there is noble and just.  No one in their right mind thinks that Iraq would be better off with Saddam still in power and his torture chambers still going full speed ahead.

May God bless you and your effort at bringing stability to that troubled region of this world.  You are in my daily prayers that your mission will be successful and that you will return home safely to this country that has been so richly blessed and to your family who love and support you.

From Brother Christy:

When I was your age the world and our nation were in a struggle for peace, and I had no other choice than to serve my country in perilous times, as did so many others.  We did it with the same grim determination to do our share to protect our nation’s hard-won freedoms.  And we did it without complaint.  The times and places have changed but the same old dilemma is there, which is that freedom is not free and American men must go in harm’s way to keep it.

Vietnam and Korea together took the lives of over 100,000 Americans and maimed many tens of thousands more.   A lot of people who think they know everything think that we had no business going into either of those wars.  Heck, a lot of people who think they know everything thought we had no business going into World War II! 

So, things haven’t changed all that much, nor will things ever change all that much.  Good Americans will continue to put on the uniform and go in harm’s way to protect our nation’s freedom. 

“So what?” they may ask.  The ‘what’ is that our country remains free.  I was very proud of my grandfather, my father, and several uncles for their service in World Wars One and Two.  My children and many of my friends are proud of my service in Vietnam.  And your children and your friends will be proud of your service in Iraq.  There it is.

Let me therefore testify that I believe that you will always know in your heart that you have done your duty, have done very difficult things to protect your country, and that it has all been worth it.  Not everybody can know that, can have that feeling, but we can.

God bless you and those with you who are serving in Iraq.  And please ignore all the garbage you hear in the media by people, most of whom have never gone in harm’s way to protect their country, who think they know everything.  They’ll never really know, nor will they deserve to feel what we feel.

Look What They’ve Accomplished!

The media has a way of sending a message that this war is failing.  It is not failing! Marvelous things are being accomplished that, sadly, the American people don’t hear in most news reports.  Newscasters seem to enjoy reporting only the tragic, and certainly there is the tragic — even just one life is a horrible loss. Still we must never forget that achieving democracy for any nation takes a terrible toll — remember what it took to bring freedom to America. 

In spite of this terrible toll, which in the number of lives lost in this war is so far less than previous wars that it’s almost inconceivable, so much good is happening.  Look at just a few of the amazing things made possible by our military men and women since the war began.

1.       Five million Iraqi students are back in school (many for the first time), with 51 million new Ba'ath-free textbooks in circulation.

2.       Academics forced into exile under Saddam are coming back to teach in Iraqi universities.

3.       There are now over 200,000 trained Iraqi security forces personnel.

4.       The Ministry of Industry has issued 7,661 licenses for new businesses.

5.       There is a large boost in economic activity due to tax-cuts.

6.       A complete rebuilding and renovation of major telecommunications infrastructure is under way.

7.       A new sewer system is improving health conditions and stimulating the Iraqi economy.

8.       Public Health Centers are bringing family healthcare to Iraqi neighborhoods.

Good news actually outruns bad news in Iraq by a factor of a thousand to one!

As columnist Rod D. Martin recently wrote:

Literally millions of Iraqis — alone in the Arab world — have twice stood up to terrorist bullies, voting first to elect new leaders and just recently to ratify their new constitution. And that includes 105,000 Iraqis in Fallujah, once the heart of the insurgency, who turned out last month to vote on the new constitution.”  (From http://rightmarch.com/media/truthiraq2.pdf)

It’s Time to Recognize our Heroes

In a New York Times article a few days ago, journalist David Brooks was lamenting the realization that most Americans can’t name even one hero of this war, when there are, in fact, many. In an effort to remedy that he told of the heroic deeds of Marine Capt. Christopher Leva and his unit’s highly successful attack on the so-called insurgent-safe-haven town of Ubaydi, along the Iraqi-Syrian border where he and his fellow Marines killed about 75 insurgents and captured 17 others. 

The acts of courage described in this report were mind boggling.  Only one Marine lost his life in this heroic effort.  And why wasn’t this and other numerous victories reported?  According to Brooks “That’s partly because some people don’t want this war to seem like a heroic enterprise.”  He went on to say that the U.S. has become “a culture that knows how to honor the casualties and the dead but not the strength and prowess of its warriors.”

We can change that.  Let’s honor all our warriors, not only those who have given there lives, but those who continue on with valor day in and day out — for us!. Let’s say Thank you and Merry Christmas in overwhelming numbers.

Send Your Cards and Letters to:

To: A Defender of Our Freedom
℅ CW4 Randall K. Au
HQ, 29 BCT
Bldg 4130, LSAA
APO AE 09391

To: A Defender of Our Freedom
℅ Chaplain Gaylan Springer
HHB 2/222 FA 2-28 BCT
APO AE 09362-9997
(FYI: Soldiers in Ch. Springer’s unit are from Richfield, Beaver, Cedar City, and St. George, UT)

To: A Defender of Our Freedom
℅ Chaplain Harms
HHC 4-64 Armor
FOB Prosperity
APO AE 09348

To: A Defender of Our Freedom
℅ Chaplain Anthony Horton
HHC, 40th Engineer Battalion
APOAE 09330

To: A Defender of Our Freedom
℅ Scott J. Halverson
HHT/2-6 CAV
APO AE 09354

A Message from the President

Our U.S. military’s Commander in Chief, President George W. Bush, recently said as he spoke to veterans regarding this war, “We don't know the course our own struggle will take, or the sacrifices that might lie ahead. We do know, however, that the defense of freedom is worth our sacrifice. We know that the love of freedom is the mightiest force in history. And we do know the cause of freedom will once again prevail.  May God bless you all.”

How thankful we are for a President who knows how to stand for the right in the face of so much opposition.  We stand with him in support of all of our beloved service men and women and the vitally important work they are doing. (For more information see National Strategy for Victory in Iraq at http://www.gop.com/News/Read.aspx?ID=5956.)

Church DVD for Military

If you want to find out how our Church leaders feel about our military men and women and the mission they are performing you will enjoy viewing the new DVD Let Not Your Hearts Be Troubled, created especially for Latter-Day Saints serving in the military.  It’s available at Church Distribution, item # 54616000. We’re sending a copy to our son and each of our children so they can know of our Church leaders’ support for those in military service.

Now it’s up to all of us to let these courageous brothers and sisters know of our support.  Thank you for joining us in this important project of Christmas love.

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About the Author:

Gary and Joy Lundberg

Gary and Joy Lundberg live in Provo, Utah and are parents of five children and have thirteen grandchildren.

Gary is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice,
and is a clinical member of the American Association for Marriage
and Family Therapy and a member of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychologists. Born and raised in Washington, DC, he served seven years as a fighter pilot in the U.S. Air Force.

Joy is a writer and lyricist and has written over 170 songs with composer
Janice Kapp Perry. She has been a
script writer for the Mormon
Tabernacle Choir broadcast Music
and the Spoken Word for the past six
years, and has authored numerous
Church magazine articles. She was
born in Ogden, UT and was reared in
Vale, Oregon.

Gary and Joy are the authors of the
best-selling books on relationships
I Don't Have to Make Everything All
Better, and Married for Better,
Not Worse: 14 Secrets to a Happy
Marriage, as well as the pocket-size
book for youth and young adults, On
Guard! Seven Safeguards to Protect
Your Sexual Purity.

They present marriage retreats, firesides and seminars throughout the
country, and enjoy teaching at BYU Campus Education Week. Currently
they’re serving a part-time Church service mission at the BYU World
Family Policy Center.

For more information visit their Web site at http://www.garyjoylundberg.com.

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