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Your Hardest Family Question: When should I ask for what I need and when should I go along? By Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT

Sometimes we need to accept our circumstances, perhaps shaped by our significant other. Other times, we need to stand up and say, “I would like something different.” How do I decide when to stand up?

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Your Hardest Family Question: Should I confront my adult daughter about her affair?

I have a question for you about my daughter, my adult daughter and single mom of four, who I just learned a few days ago has been engaging in an affair with a married man.

By Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT
Your Hardest Family Question: My husband won’t talk to our kids during our separation

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Your Hardest Family Question: What if my daughter marries an abuser?

As a father of three daughters, how can I know if a guy (daughter's boyfriend) is really a good person and not an abusive two-faced loser? I don't want my girls to go through heartache.

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Your Hardest Family Question: I’m so depressed I want to give up

"I am so depressed and feel so worthless. I've recently been through a painful divorce and my friends are tired of being around me because of my depression. I don't know what to do or how to move on."

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Your Hardest Family Question: I’m on my deathbed and my daughter won’t talk to me

My time here on earth is limited due to a terminal illness. I have written her letters, but she does not respond. She has many good redeemable qualities and I miss the good parts of her in my life. What can I do?

By Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT
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Why Dads Aren’t Dispensable: Four Unique Things They Provide

It is central to our gospel understanding that both mother & father are indispensable in a family. Neither mom nor dad can be replaced & each brings unique & essential gifts to the rearing of a child. We need each other. How could that be more obvious?

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